Zowie, From Before

Did I mention ice…

Did I mention ice cream? Christa-coffee with double chocolate sauce, Caleb-chocolate with no sauce. I thought I was going to let them eat ice cream Any Time They Wanted. I thought I was going to let them eat ice cream until they couldn’t eat even one more bite of ice cream. But I was wrong. As is Always the case with kids, they will outlast you. On a couple of occasions I had to say ‘no, you just have to eat some food before you can have more ice cream’.

And we did eat food. Every meal like this, with only a few exceptions.

Breakfast: Room Service delivers a plain bagel with margarine for Christa, a huge pile of bacon for Caleb and then we get ice cream.
Lunch: From Deck Service Christa gets a plain pizza, Caleb gets a plain hamburger and then we get ice cream.
Dinner: From Room Service or from Deck Service Christa gets a plain pizza, Caleb gets a plain hamburger and then we get ice cream.

During the day we get ice cream many times from the ice cream bar and at night before bed we get ice cream from room service. One time Christa went to get ice cream for herself and Caleb. She asked for coffee with double chocolate sauce and a chocolate with chocolate sauce. The guy at the ice cream bar said ‘but your brother doesn’t get chocolate sauce’. They knew.

You know how when…

December 29

You know how when a room starts to take on a rosy hue so you open the door and then Bam, sunset.

I went with Sharon…

December 27

I went with Sharon for my first walk in three weeks. We stopped off at LA Louver to see an Edward and Nancy Kienholz exhibit. Edward died in 1994 and I don’t remember that Nancy was credited in the past.

I remember this: “A 1966 show at the Los Angeles County Museum of Art drew considerable controversy over his assemblage, Back Seat Dodge ‘38 (1964). The Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors called it “revolting, pornographic and blasphemous” and threatened to withhold financing for the museum unless the tableau was removed from view. A compromise was reached under which the sculpture’s car door would remain closed and guarded, to be opened only on the request of a museum patron who was over 18, and only if no children were present in the gallery.”

And his other big sculpture of the time, Five Card Stud (1969-72) was even more disquieting to me, both being defining experiences for me struggling with the big question, But Is It Art? (Answer=Yes)

My across-the-street neighbor took…

My across-the-street neighbor took this picture while I was in the hospital. As soon as it’s street cleaning day and the cars are gone I’ll get another one.

It’s still missing some parts and the ground cover is just little blobs waiting to grow. Patience they say.

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OMG amazon.com. I…

December 26

OMG amazon.com. I have lived to see the day when shopping is possible for me. Get this, all the wrong things that I chose, I just have to carry them across the street to Whole Foods and a refund will appear on my credit card. A-Ma-Zon A-May-Zing.

No picture of the…

December 25

No picture of the kids…no pictures of the yummy food and the festive morning. So let’s have Oliver!

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And then instead of…

And then instead of joining them for dinner I went home for a nap and woke up the next morning. Rest and drink water, just like the doctor ordered.

Look what the Hawaii…

December 22

Look what the Hawaii Browns sent! Lona is in Hawaii with them too. It’s a holiday-get-well bundle of loveliness. Thank you guys!

..and a tree. …

..and a tree. I took this in the dark – maybe I’ll try for a better one. I enjoy it very much!

I left…

December 19

This is my doctor, a picture from at least before 2005. He has Far less hair now, but he’s still a cutie and my favorite kind of doctor. He never overreacts and he wants what you want. I went in to check that for 100% sure I wasn’t contagious. 100% my doctor said, you are not contagious.

UPDATE! I left the hospital thinking I’d had a bladder infection which made me vulnerable to flu.

No he said, they have no idea what was the source of your infection because it was everywhere, which is what made you so sick. They treated it in the drip with multiple broad spectrum antibiotics and antivirals for the flu and you got better.

About this pervasive septic infection (a much more dangerous condition than I thought I had), why did it happen? What could I do differently? Apparently No One Has Any Idea! My doctor says drink more water.

I’m going to write this here so it’s somewhere, from my discharge papers. “You were hospitalized for Sepsis due to undetermined organism. Your diagnoses also included Mixed Hyperlipidemia, Flu, Abnormal Ekg, Cystitis, Metabolic Encephalopathy.” When they released me all tests were negative for that list of conditions.

I watched seasons 2…

I watched seasons 2 and 3 of The Marvelous Mrs Mazel (the hospital has excellent wifi) and I was struck by it’s Mad Men-esque devotion to a design sensibility, and reminded how back in the olden days we got comedy from listening to records. And there were only so many records.

No one could come…

No one could come into my room without a mask and gloves which they changed multiple times. It felt like I was in a movie.

Looks like I’m going…

December 14

Looks like I’m going home from the hospital in a few hours, oh YAY!

Advice: Get a flu shot. The reason is because IF you get the flu you will be harangued by ALL and sundry. ‘Did you get a flu shot?’ ‘You didn’t?’ ‘For heavens sake why not?’ You will hear this 10,000 times before it’s over so save yourself the bother and just get a shot.

Some hospital stories to follow as soon as I get home and clean up the remnants of my crisis.

Another great party. …

December 9

Another great party. We all talk about this party all year looking forward to the next one.

me, Marija, Alicia, Ljubica, Maxine, Lourdes, Becky, Marsha, Ann

Lilly playing Little Anna…

December 8

Lilly playing Little Anna in the Redondo Beach Community Theater production of Frozen.

She was PERFECT. She sang and acted the part so wonderfully..

..we were all So…

..we were all So Happy for her.

Darryl, Christa, Lona, me, Liz, Gary, Lilly, (oops..I forget Lilly’s friend’s name)

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I moved it around…

I moved it around a few times but this has been working. I had to move the tea service to the other side and I even like it better there!

I am fishing through amazon for some cord control product. Any ideas?

In kind of random…

In kind of random order (and btw it rained all day on the 4th so I finished unpacking from Saint Paul, did laundry, cooked food, etc. It was lovely.)

I’m with Rome and Lilly for three days while D&A go to a music festival in Vegas or as Rome says, Vegas Baby. We’re having FUN!

This morning’s Elves on the Shelf found their way to a Shelf!

Last night we ate…

Last night we ate down the block at the place that used to be an Indian place and then used to be another Indian place, we liked them both, and is now a much snappier and fully packed Italian place. And we even ran into Ken and Susie there!

Then we went to see Taylor and Tessa in the same play that Lilly will be doing on Sunday. They have enough kids to put together seven full casts and hence seven shows.

Here’s Lilly sitting with Tyler and Rome sitting with Tyler’s sister Emily.

..and that’s big sister…

..and that’s big sister Taylor in the blond wig as adult Elsa. Taylor got THE part in the whole show, and to top it off she sang Let It Go to huge cheers from the standing crowd. You go Taylor!

from T&T’s mom Denise.

Tessa was over after…

Tessa was over after school on Friday for some play time before dance class followed by her big show.

This is from spotless, in 45 minutes. And a fine time was had by all.

On Thursday Lilah came over after school and we had another fun afternoon and evening but it was a school night so we were in the regular routine.

Monday I spent the…

December 2-3

Monday I spent the afternoon and evening in the valley where the weather was lovely. Tuesday Windy came over and we enjoyed a nice swing through the new Trader Joe’s around the corner from my house.

In honor of Trader Joe’s arrival and as a Welcome to the ‘Hood, I bought this orchid. I’m still not fully unpacked nor have I done the laundry. Sigh!

Happy Birthday Susie (back…

December 1

Happy Birthday Susie (back in October but we celebrate when the opportunity presents itself). We went to the Disney Concert Hall to enjoy Dudamel and the LA Phil performing a Rachmaninoff piano concerto and Stravinsky’s Rite of Spring. It was gaspingly great!

But first we ran into Ben and Bonnie at the opening talk! What a happy surprise.

Marsha was there too…

Marsha was there too and the three of us walked down to Maccheroni Republic. Then Marsha peeled off to the train while Susie and I took the Angels Flight back to Grand.

To get back to the Disney Hall parking we walked through MOCA’s plaza where the airplane sculpture used to be and I was curious to see what would be in its place. Here it is, all glow-y red cubes. It looked cool.

The landscaper is talking…

November 22

The landscaper is talking about lavender for the ‘base layer’ in front and there are so many kinds. I spent an hour down in the internet’s rabbit hole of lavender.

…quite NUTS again this…

…quite NUTS again this year which is wonderful. When I get back from Minnesota I have to get someone out to tend to it or half of the delicious fruit will rot as has happened before.

Rome did a big…

November 21

Rome did a big project for school and Great Aunt Lona was her subject, her Elder. They did a big interview and Rome wrote a report and letters, did research, and finally prepared an oral presentation for this wonderful reception.

The class did these…

The class did these welcome posters too. Lona was out with Christa today in Oregon so I got to be the stand-in Elder and it was delightful. Rome did a marvelous job on her presentation and as the moderator of her group.

They broke all the…

They broke all the 8th grade classes into smaller groups so that we could hear other presentations too. A few of our people had already left by the time I could take this picture.

From the stairs, it…

From the stairs, it seems Oliver found my shoes a new fragrant treat. He licked them soaking wet but didn’t tear at anything so all is well.

It does look like he knows he’s up to something…and he didn’t budge for a very long time.

Good morning! We,…

November 19-20

Good morning! We, being me, Windy, Liz, and Gary, hung around the house for a while, had coffee, admired the yard, and then…

…went to eat at…

…went to eat at a lovely café and ended up here at the Joshua Tree Coffee Company.

Fond farewells were exchanged and then we were off to…

Then we went into…

Then we went into Palm Springs for the night. Our room is a huge suite including amazing of amazing that is our private deck.

We had a massage and dinner. This is a good day!

Windy and I went…

November 18

Windy and I went to Hesperia for the second time to find a real estate agent we like since the first one felt a little weak. We want to sell our small plot of land out there, the proceeds of which will fund our family reunion. We are so happy because this agent we think is going to do the trick.

We got into Yucca…

We got into Yucca Valley to visit Liz, Gary, and Dev just in time to enjoy the lovely dinner they made for us and then have an after dinner stroll around the ‘hood.

And then in the…

And then in the evening I got to invite Jo Ann to join me at the Geffen thanks to Ken and Susie who weren’t going to use their tickets – absolute center five rows from the stage. It was great!

You could get a…

You could get a little idea from the smaller structures. The museum was closed too but we did get a little conversation with a guy who worked at the art center.

My ears have been…

November 16

My ears have been bugging me off and on, as they often do, and I had heard about this Minute Clinic on the radio. Many of the CVS pharmacies have this little walk in service staffed by a Nurse Practitioner. So I went in there, she looked in my ears and didn’t see anything so that was good. I’d go here again.

We all went off…

We all went off to Palmdale to have lunch with Louise who is doing great. You go Louise!

Marija, Louise, Lucy, Ljubica

I like the feeling…

November 14

I like the feeling of this fence. A small fence set back from the sidewalk is in my mind for me too.

We ate at the…

We ate at the Lakeside Café in a mini-State Park I Encino. It is hiding behind Ventura Blvd which was so much fun to find. You can tour the buildings in this picture and the lake looks exactly the same.

Finally I remembered to…

November 13

Finally I remembered to take a picture during a lunch with Boban. We get together twice a year – my birthday and his birthday and I’m so glad for it. It makes me smile even after all these years.

Muriel and I had…

Muriel and I had a good walk and then a late lunch/early dinner at Uovo. The timing was excellent since it wasn’t crowded hence not so noisy as usual, and the owner was testing a dish, asking the few gathered around for their opinions. That was fun!

Happy Birthday Arlene, Big…

November 10

Happy Birthday Arlene, Big Seven OHH! Terry put on quite the festivity with a sit-down dinner for 50, tables laid out around the house. Arlene is on the right with her school-days friend who shares a birthday. Too fun!

I met Alex and…

November 9

I met Alex and Carol here in Pershing Square, to join an L.A. Conservancy walking tour of the surviving Art Deco buildings downtown.

Not that it isn’t…

Not that it isn’t still ratty and a little stinky on most streets but it does feel alive with people who live there and I never thought I’d see the day.

Followed by a visit…

Followed by a visit to a rooftop bar, Perch, for the view over Pershing Square. There are so many rooftop views to enjoy, just ask google.

We ate in a…

We ate in a Vietnamese restaurant, Little Sister. It was an excellent experience – comfortable, tasty, and oh so hip.

Ben and Bonnie and…

November 8

Ben and Bonnie and I went to the Annenberg Space for Photography today. I really like this view of the twin towers in Century City where I worked for all those years.

Turn around and there’s the Annenberg.

The show was wonderful….

The show was wonderful. It’s called W/alls and with the 30th anniversary of the fall of the Berlin Wall and the billions of dollars we are now spending on a wall, it all feels so relevant.

The subject is a…

The subject is a Bansky piece. The ladder and the man chipping away at a star are part of the painting.

Then we ate at…

Then we ate at this place at the Mall called Eataly and I ate so much I didn’t eat the rest of the day. It’s tomorrow morning and I’m still full!

Fun! Marigolds going with a couple of my birds.

We did the Secret…

We did the Secret Santa assignments for the Monday Ladies, something Lilly has been doing for many years. Rome used to participate too but now she’s Grown Up. Yikes.

Trevor and Beth are…

Trevor and Beth are in Oxford visiting Caleb and they sent this picture of Caleb’s class.

There he is right in the middle of the middle. Check out those ties. I’m waiting for Caleb to tell me what they mean.

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This is the woman…

November 6

This is the woman who is going to design my landscape project. She came over today, we went over some stuff, and I gave her money so that’s commitment.

Her online presence is so lame, which we also discussed. Cynthia told me her sister is relentlessly hammering on her, telling her she has to do better. But I hired her anyway and from all evidence so have many others.

I saw Parasite with…

November 5

I saw Parasite with Nancy. It was looong, it was in Korean, and I couldn’t look away.

Here’s Nancy granddaughter at her riding lesson and Nancy with her niece. Sometimes I don’t worry about pictures because facebook is there for the taking.

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Once a year or…

November 4

Once a year or so I like to take the Monday Ladies out for something different. This time we had a nice dinner at an Italian restaurant and then we went to a real old-fashioned bookstore.

7 of the 10 came so yay for everyone who could make it: Marsha, Lourdes, Becky, Marija, Ann, Alicia

At the bookstore, Chevalier’s…

At the bookstore, Chevalier’s Books on Larchmont, Ben was ‘in conversation’ with Rabbi Laura Geller about her latest book, “Getting Good at Getting Older”.

It was so interesting and everyone said they were glad to have attended. The internet has plenty to say about Laura and the book but amazon isn’t selling it which I find peculiar. Maybe she’s doing bookstores like a theatrical release before streaming? Ben needs a new promo picture.

I met Carl and…

November 3

I met Carl and Lynn for Happy Hour which evolved into dinner at a new place in Culver City – Amacita which they write as amá.cita for their own fancy reasons, and that dot they write as a bullet.

Despite the hipster name the food was fabulous. We were all very happy with every bite.

facebook photo in Tenderfoot Mountain

Merlyn and Hilda came…

Merlyn and Hilda came over for dinner, actually they brought the dinner, a delicious lasagna. I made some appetizers, a salad, garlic bread, a sweet treat – it was lovely.

I didn’t take a picture so I got this one from a very different event in a different city with different people and I wasn’t even there!

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Lona and Christa stayed…

November 2

Lona and Christa stayed a few nights with Lucas and Betsy while Christa did her interviews. L&C are about mid-way through their three week trip. Anya is there too but Xander is still in Japan.

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Remember Eri, Christa’s friend…

November 1

Remember Eri, Christa’s friend who’s staying at Lona’s place for a while, she speaks fluent Japanese! We went together to Little Tokyo to kick around for an afternoon.

We went to the…

We went to the Japanese American History Museum which Eri found particularly interesting not being very familiar with what happened to the US mainland Japanese during WWII.

This is a model of Manzanar.

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