Daily Life 2009

Can it be possible?

Happy Birthday Roger! …

June 25

Happy Birthday Roger! We ate a feast, drank delicious wine, and generally had a jolly good time.

Seated from the left: Charlie, Sandy, r&s’s trainer, r&s’s neighbor. Standing from the left: Fred, Fred’s brother, Roger, Fred’s sister, Nancy. Darryl, Angela, and Rome came too!

Rome! I got…

June 24

Rome! I got to go for a school pick-up and when Rome caught sight of me she cried out ‘oh Granny Granny!’ and ran for a hug. How excellent is That?!?!

Pictures of us and one of her teachers in the mirror long enjoyed by rooms full of pre-schoolers.

Sandy’s at the Pacific…

June 7

Sandy’s at the Pacific Palasades Art Show. This is the first time for her to display the oil paintings she’s been working on and they are lovely!

NA Nancy has made…

June 8

NA Nancy has made a mess of her finger and she’s been going around like this for some time now. We haven’t given it a name…that’s odd.

Here’s what Nancy said in a recent email: “Today has been a great stay at home day though.. E-mail and computer stuff. Walk to post office with bb&b coupons. Mini-yoga at the park under the jacaranda trees. Now getting ready for lunch with Ellen. Oh, small nap on sofa with newspaper open on my lap. I think I may have mastered retirement already.” Cool beans Nancy!

It’s Tuesday and Rome…

June 9

It’s Tuesday and Rome and I make lunch. Today we made our lunch in the shape of the letter B because we are going to visit BAABIES!

First I got to…

First I got to meet baby Zack, brother of Zoe, son of Emily and Mitch.

I got to hold him for a Nice long time. We went into the living room while the moms chatted in one room and the little girls played in another. Zack and I had an excellent opportunity to visit and play and and make funny sounds and look around the house. What A Cutie!

And then…

…I got to go…

…I got to go meet The Twins (yes, identical!), left to right, Lila and Anya, sisters of Nora, daughters of Katie and Jed. (Katie and Jed who, as my mother used to say, don’t know which end is up.)

Listen to this! I got to feed baby Lila! She looked at me with soft contented eyes, such cooing and snoogling. She finished off the whole thing, did a sweet little burp and fell asleep in my arms until it was time to leave. Ahh, joy.

A day of baby-love. What a treat! THANKS to Emily and Katie and to Angela and Rome too for giving me such a sweet send-off to Wisconsin.

I’ve got a second…

June 10

I’ve got a second here in the Eau Claire airport, out here in The Badger State, in the home of The Cheeseheads…I thought they were The Dairy State and it’s not just me but Ms Wiki says The Badger State so that’s it.

What’s missing (maybe more I’m not remembering?) and I’m going to add the photos asap:

1) Sandy’s Art Show.

2) Nancy’s Injury.

3) The baaabies!

(internet pic)

I went up to…

June 5 and 6

I went up to Santa Barbara to visit with Michi and see her new place. She is 3-4 blocks from the heart of the elite and gracious downtown. Soo cool.

It was rainy on Friday and there was an accident on the PCH that Closed The Road so my arrival was quite delayed. We just hung around and worked on a photo project Michi was doing for an employer.

We did all our…

We did all our out-and-about on Saturday.

Like breakfast at the Cajun Kitchen where I had jambalaya for breakfast and it was fab. Then we strolled the Farmer’s Market.

We were at the…

We were at the house in Montecito for the night and here’s one of the cats, not my favorite perfect cat, but a cool cat anyway.

This is some of…

This is some of the make-up belonging to the lady of the house.

I seriously puzzled. How can a person have 10 lipsticks and then buy another one? And then after having got the 11th go on to buy another and another?

Then on the way…

Then on the way back I did some research into the camping opportunities along PCH. After talking to rangers, scouring the internet, and remembering from past trips, I can say that those right-by-the-sand places are RV compatible but risky in tents. The sites are crowded and it blows, and it blows SAND.

But there is a grand alternative. Sycamore Canyon! You can easily carry your chair and stroll over to this very cool beach with Shade!

They’ve got tents, tent…

They’ve got tents, tent cabins, RVs of every size, but you know, it is a simple truth, the Volkswagon van/bus with the Westfalia conversion is the perfect choice were it not that the van/bus is such a cr*ppy vehicle.

I passed a few of them on the road today, watching them cough their lungs out as they struggled up the slightest rise, pooping black smoke all along the way. When When will there be a decent replacement?

And yet camp here,…

And yet camp here, in the shade in the trees with decent space around the sites, tables and fire-pits, ‘facilities’, and that very reason for camping – the wild smell of the morning.

…is going to make…

…is going to make it hard for them to finish their work!

They have paintings on the other storage containers too but the containers have recently been moved around and no one knows how it’s going to all turn out.

Great job ladies!

Susie and I had…

June 4

Susie and I had our long anticipated outing today. What with one thing and another it’s been months since we’ve had a chance to get together.

We’re in San Pedro now at the Marine Mammal Care Center at Fort MacArthur where Susie and her friend Ann have been painting murals on these storage containers. See the chain link fence? It just showed up and…

The Marine Mammal Care…

The Marine Mammal Care Center is a rescue service for mostly beached sea lions and elephant seals. Passionate, dedicated volunteers make it all happen.

Susie asked her mural partner what brought the animals to the care center. I’m going to quote a little from her response:

Some number of them come in injured by fishing lines or nets, or even, amazingly, gunshots. The demoic acid that they ingest from fish is worsened by agricultural runoff into the ocean. And their food supply is also affected by competition from commercial fishing. So a percentage of the seals being treated are there due to human behavior. Also a percentage are there due to their own failure-to-thrive conditions.

On the very short…

On the very short drive between the Marine Mammal Care Center and Fort MacArthur we find this church and what’s printed on the side of the building is a notice that masses are conducted only and entirely in Latin. I can imagine wanting to hear such a thing.

It sure doesn’t look like a Catholic church though.

We’re on the top…

We’re on the top of Fort MacArthur here, created in 1914.

Its current status according to Ms Wiki: “the Battery Osgood-Farley is probably the best preserved example of a United States coastal defense gun emplacement, and it was placed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1976. A second site, Battery John Barlow and Saxton, was added to the Register in 1982.”

They’ve got a mini-museum…

They’ve got a mini-museum under the embankments with a ton of memorabilia stuck on the walls and set out on tables. It’s very interesting, and a labor of love.

…and if you turn…

…and if you turn to the left you’ve got the Korean Bell of Friendship perched on the edge of a cliff at the edge of the Great Pacific Ocean. What a gorgeous day!

This is the shot full frame right out of the camera. When I clicked the shutter I was So careful to get everything lined up…and Look at the lawn segments?!? I thought everything was even. My eyes aren’t just seeing fuzzy, they are seeing dang weird. Wait…unless there’s something wrong with the camera…Yes, That must be it, there’s something wrong with the camera!

Some detail from the…

Some detail from the roof of the Friendship Bell pagoda. Excellent work by Korean craftsmen dedicated in 1976.

And here’s Another site…

And here’s Another site right there too in this historic area of San Pedro, the Point Fermin Lighthouse.

Yes, that’s a lighthouse with the beacon up there on the top and an old Victorian house built around it. Opened in 1874, it was used as only a watchtower from the time of the attack on Pearl Harbor.

We ate a yummy lunch (my first Birthday lunch…thanks Susie!) and then made our way to…

…a watercolor show in…

…a watercolor show in this building. There was no way to know they were having a watercolor show in there so that’s one problem.

We were expecting a small collection of works by your Great Aunt Ida but no, unless your Great Aunt Ida was a really good water color painter. We liked it! You can read about them here at http://www.nationalwatercolorsociety.org

Mighty grand….

Mighty grand.

We met the people who live in the house one time and they cut a flower for Rome to take home! A couple times a year we get these blooms. They reseed the patch with what they collect from the previous crop and then it just grows since they don’t even have water out there.

We’re off to walk…

June 2

We’re off to walk around the block and see what we can see. Check out those shoes. They sparkle!

From a few days…

From a few days ago, this was the first time I saw the babies hatched – there are two of them in there – but I must have missed several days since they are so big and I never did get to see her feed them.

It’s time for Rome’s…

May 31

It’s time for Rome’s dance recital! That’s her teacher Miss Meghan gathering her group. One of her groups actually as she has many.

I will say that they ran this huge HUGE recital (with something like 80 performances broken into four ‘sets’ so you only watch your own set) with the precision and efficiency of a swat operation. Amazing amazing on the logistics. And the costumes that each parent bought. Wow. The performances were cool too!

The trick for the…

The trick for the kids is to watch the teacher. For groups of more than four kids they had two teachers, one at each end, doing the routines in broad strokes. You could start to recognize the moves as you would expect but it was very clever of the teachers how each group put the basic moves together differently.

They were each and every one a-DOR-a-ble.

It’s Hartley, Lona, and…

May 30

It’s Hartley, Lona, and Christa, and we’re out for an afternoon on the pier. Lona convinced me to go for a ride in the Ferris wheel saying she had done it several times before and it was great.

It wasn’t too bad actually because the carts are huge, there are no feet hanging over thin air, and they circle slowly and…

…but Lona, under some…

…but Lona, under some pressure from the fam, thought to give it a try.

On exiting the roller coaster and for an hour or so after she only repeated emphatically ‘never again never never again’.

First I’m going to…

May 29

First I’m going to Wisconsin (YEA!) and then a quick visit to the Grand Canyon (Oh FUN), and then it’s going to be BABY TIME (HURRAY!)! and after that…what’s next?

I’ve never been to Rome and I reallly want to go. I’ve never been to Greece or Turkey and I reallly want to go. There’s finishing up my trip in New Zealand…and I’ve never been to Australia. And there’s the chance for a crazy adventure to visit Mindy with the Peace Corps in Zambia.

And now I’ve been watching Monarch of the Glen on Netflix ‘watch immediate’ which means I sit up until 1-2-3 in the morning catching up on seven years worth of episodes. And now I want to go there.

(internet photo)

…and we went to…

…and we went to opening day of the new Pixar movie UP. We love love loved it.

Wow was it ever charming. For me the kid was rendered so perfectly, everything about his body language felt completely spot on. And the dogs. OMG the dogs…the person in charge of the personalities of those dogs, well, you’ll see.

(internet pic)

Windy had a great…

May 27

Windy had a great birthday celebration for Lona and Hartley at her place out in Toganga. We passed on the sign. Maybe Lonie gets the record…more than 2 months late…but what with business and traveling and cancer and all, this was our first best chance.

Happy Birthday Lona and Hartley and Many Thanks Win.

I wandered into Nordstrom…

I wandered into Nordstrom looking to replace the two t-shirts I have worn every day of my life for the last two years (Man those shirts are nasty), and caught sight of these shoes. Hmm, I thought, maybe these could work for dancing because the no-heel but strap around the leg might work for my AAA ankle and C in the toes.

So I put them on. Hey! This is pretty good. This might work. Maybe I should give them a try? Hmm, I thought, how much are these babies going for? Oh. $350.

Memorial Day and I…

May 25

Memorial Day and I went to The Grove. What was I thinking again? But actually it wasn’t bad because The Grove is right on the Marathon route and people were staying away.

These guys were hot. Really. They were singing all the ol’ time rock ‘n roll crowd-pleasin’ classics with a constant up-beat and ‘aren’t we all just having Fun’ patter and cheering the little kids doing the twist on the lawn. Good job guys.

Tuesday, Rome! I…

May 26

Tuesday, Rome! I went with Angela and Rome to Ikea since Rome is going to get a new bed before the new baby comes and it’s a big decision for sure so research was in order.

Looks like this guy is the winner. The drawers work as drawers and then the whole mechanism can pull out to create a double-twin for sleep-overs. You party on.

It’s Free! We…

May 24

It’s Free! We went to hear the Santa Monica Symphony concert at the Civic Center, and it was Greaaat!

Sharon, Hana, and Tai. Sorry guys. I knew the light was going to kill this picture and I could have used the flash but…but…

Then we walked down…

Then we walked down to the Casa del Mar for a glass of wine and a visit around the most excellent windows in their gorgeous lounge. What a great evening.

I just realized while writting this – the ferris wheel is not early for July 4th, it’s doing its Veteran’s Day display. Now I get it. It has dozens of ‘moves’ but this night it was all about one huge flag thing after another.

This was fun! …

May 23

This was fun! I met Roger and Sandy at the beach and we ate surprisingly (really!) good food right there on Washington Blvd just below the boardwalk.

I’d even go here agin.

Wow! It’s Marija…

May 22

Wow! It’s Marija and Brian’s grandbaby Alexander! Congratulations Marija and Brian! He is a Prince among babies, we can tell that already. Marija has so happily spent the last several weeks up there on her very own Cloud 9 named Alexander. Yea Marija! Of Course hurray Melinda and Steve too…

I had a nice…

May 21

I had a nice long walk first to meet Sharon at B&N and then we walked together to Venice, ate, and walked back. Does all that walking absolve me of my 25 situps? I don’t think so.

It’s Spring and all the girl dinos have on their flower dresses.

In the evening I…

In the evening I went with ND Nancy to see Jo Ann speak at the Getty about her exhibition there.

The traffic was a Dee-SAS-ter. It took us more than one hour to go from my house to the Getty. It’s almost impossible to imagine but I was there to see it happen.

It was a very fine evening and the roads were clear by the time we headed home.

We went out on…

May 19

We went out on a shopping expedition to the mall. And where’s the fun in that? The Play Area, there’s fun to be had there.

A fun snagged internet…

May 16

A fun snagged internet photo here to tell about what I did today. Except there’s no big steak dinner showing in the picture, which was a real highlight.

I went with Marsha on her expedition to look at houses for sale, and it was fun. I’m quite sure they are going to find Just The Thing. Then we ate a big delicious homemade steak dinner.

Wellll, first I had…

May 14

Wellll, first I had to go Back to the dentist since last night my temporary cap came off while I was eating a bowl of Cheerios.

Sharon came to meet me for lunch and then we did a nice long walk in the Palisades. Lovely. And my tooth doesn’t hurt, Hurray.

Wow, look what’s happening…

May 15

Wow, look what’s happening in my neighborhood. This is the jacaranda block. The palm tree block is next. And there’s another block of that tree I don’t know the name of. It’s nice to be home and out for a nice walk.

…here’s another one Exactly…

…here’s another one Exactly outside my Front Door!

Isn’t she soo sweet?! I don’t have any pictures of Rome from yesterday, but she’s gonn’a love these momma birds!

I’m sure momma picked that spot before I got home, thinking she had a quiet refuge and now she’s regretting her choice. I’m trying to be quiet and calm when using the door and I talk to her in soft cooing tones.

And what an Excellent…

And what an Excellent day it was. Darryl made us a feast-o-breakfast and then we got ready for a great family picnic at Balboa Park.

We did end up under a perfect tree, the only thing being more perfect-er would have been had the tree had a table and benches but then we were not the only people out for a picnic on Happy Mother’s Day…

Rome and Anya, lookin’…

Rome and Anya, lookin’ cool. Anya insisted on having her sticker on her back because, really, it just didn’t go with her dress.

Then we went to…

Then we went to the Japanese Garden also in Balboa Park. Isn’t it a lovely setting?!

That’s Grammy (Liz), Mommy (Angela), and, as Liz likes to note and I nod in silent agreement, The Amazing Rome.

Home from the land…

May 9

Home from the land of Aloha just in time to enjoy Bonnie and Ben’s gorgeous newly landscaped garden and farm.

That’s right. Not only is it a most luxurious and delightful garden…

…it’s a farm. …

…it’s a farm. Those raised beds are incredibly perfect. You can sit on a nicely padded stool and moving around the beds easily reach every part of the growing surface.

It is wonderful! What a perfect way to settle into the decade of our sixties. Happy Birthday Bonnie!

ALOHA! Today’s a…

April 14

ALOHA! Today’s a travel day. I’m off to Kauai. Sharon will pick me up at the airport and I’ll get to stay with her at her son’s faaabulous house where I also got to stay in 2006 and 2007. Wow is right.

Saturday Molly got Married!…

Saturday Molly got Married! I helped Nancy for a few hours in the morning putting together all the gorgeous flowers.

Congratulations to the whole family!

(David’s step-mom, Molly, Nancy, David, David’s dad)

And then I went…

And then I went over to Lona and Hartley’s to finish up their yearly tenant mailing for fees and rent increases which takes hours and hours and hours.

In the last six…

April 7

In the last six weeks:

My big sister was diagnosed with breast cancer, had a lumpectomy, they found no spread, she’s on radiation every day for a month, then meds for five years, and every reason to believe she will be fine.

My little sister was in the hospital for a week with what was eventually diagnosed as gastroenteritis. She’s been terribly sick and off work for a month.

My friend Ljubica’s son was in a very serious motorcycle accident and is still in the hospital three weeks later.

And now, a tooth just fell out of my mouth and I’ll tell ya, it feels ExPensive, but I’ve got some perspective right now and it hardly seems worth mentioning.

This is true. …

This is true. The girls are over playing with the Tinkerbell house. The two boys find the only two boy-ish toys in the house and proceed to have superhero fights bam bash whack whack. True.

Is this not the…

April 10

Is this not the coolest group of playgroup of moms. I am SO happy I get to play too! They’ve all got kids Rome’s age…

…and we’re well along with the second flight, siblings of Rome’s pals, two of whom are in the picture, two more playing, three more inutero. Angela is the one Not having twins…

(Andrea-Sam and David; Charlean-Sydne and JoJo; Liza-Marquez and Paloma; Amy-Sydney and Charlotte; Angela-Rome and baby Girl; Katie-Nora and baby Girl One And baby Girl Two(!); Heidi-Sydney. Regulars who are missing: Emily-Zoe and Zack; Susie-Ellie and Brandon)

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