Daily Life 2026

Rome And A Pottery Place

After lunch we went to check out Still Life Studio so Rome could buy supplies for their pottery class at SMC. Still Life Studio is an admirable place indeed. It’s Huge with 25+ wheels, 14 hand-building tables, firing, glazing, and 24/7 access.

The space is 6,000 square feet so what you see below is just a corner.

Alex And Carol At A Japanese Garden

He comes to rake the garden once a week and he told us about what the patterns mean. I learned something, so I asked AI for more, and I’ve copied the whole rap at the end of the pictures.

It’s a small garden, you can walk all around the pond in 10 minutes. We meandered in one direction and the again in the opposite direction making for a pleasant easy-going stroll.

And then we went out for lunch. What a fine, welcome word, lunch.

In a Japanese dry landscape garden (karesansui), the raking patterns—known as samon—are not static; they are traditionally changed to reflect the shifting seasons and the natural flow of water they represent. 

Seasonal Meanings and Patterns

While practitioners have individual latitude, traditional shifts include: 

  • Spring & Summer (Vitality and Flow):
    • Curvy Lines: Used to represent rushing or active water, such as a Ryūsui (flowing stream) or Kyokusen-mon (meandering stream) pattern.
    • Vortices & Ripples: Patterns like Uzumaki-mon (vortices) or Mizumon (concentric ripples) evoke the energy of rain or the active movement of water around “islands” (stones).
  • Autumn (Transition and Harvest):
    • Ichimatsu (Checkerboard): A special checkered pattern often raked around the time of the Harvest Moon (O-Tsukimi) in September/October. It is inspired by the historical designs at the Katsura Imperial Villa in Kyoto.
    • Ryūsui with Leaf Motifs: At temples like Hōnen-in, autumnal patterns might feature a “maple leaf floating along a river” raked directly into the sand.
  • Winter (Stillness and Cold):
    • Straight Lines: Simple, long straight lines—known as Chokusen-mon—are used to evoke a frozen, quiet, or dormant winter landscape.
    • Large Expanses: Broad parallel lines can simulate a calm, open sea under a cold sky.

At Canter’s

Ken, Ben, Richard, Carl, me, Josh, Mick

This lunch we had some great AI fun. Ken loaded his voice into an app that allowed the system to say anything and have it sound exactly (exactly!) like Ken. Then Richard had an example of AI music where AI wrote the words and music and created the singer, and it was great. Believe nothing!

In A Week

In a week I’m leaving for Barcelona. Ingalill and I are flying first to Copenhagen where Marita will take us to her home in Sweden for the night then the three of us will fly on to Barcelona. Barcelona is a jewel of a city and even having been there a few times before, I’m very excited to go again. We’ll also take a day trip to Montserrat where I’ve never been.

Then the working girls will go back to their respective jobs and I’ll take the train on to Madrid, where I’ve never been, by myself. I’ll probably make a day trip to Toledo. I’ve been hoping to go to Madrid for decades just to see Guernica.

Let’s see how I hold up considering that for ages now, if I’m home, I sleep from 4pm-7. Sigh…

Sandy’s Memorial

The text is going to be a while in coming.

China made these parting gifts of Sandy’s art recreated below.

No Kings In Santa Monica

I wanted to appear, just to be counted, and then I hurried off to Sandy’s memorial. Parking being what it is, I had to walk and walk to find my first protester.

I was hurrying along and caught just a couple of shots for the signs.

PhotoPhoto With Merlyn

I wanted to take Merlyn on a photo outing for his birthday and it turned out he took me – had the idea and did all the driving. Thanks Merlyn for your birthday! We went to the La Brea Tar Pits, the Page Museum, and Fanny’s for lunch.

We parked by the Page and walked across the campus to Fanny’s meaning we got to see how far along the construction is to opening the new LACMA building. The Calder fountain is BACK, and I’m so happy for that. Also the new sculpture, Jeff Koons’s Split-Rocker (2000) is going up on the south side of Wilshire.

You have to pass through LACMA to get to Fanny’s at the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures.

Back at the Page, Merlyn is 6’2″.

A little diorama.

Merlyn’s car, a big Tesla with the huge windshield and the gull wing back doors. We went on self-driving almost the entire way.

Something Rotten(!)

Lilly’s Theater program this Spring was a massive production of the Broadway hit Something Rotten! She was the Assistant Lead of the Lighting Crew. Yes, the lighting was wonderful. It was a great show with an astounding number of massive costume changes. The singers were as good as I’ve heard at these productions, and the dance numbers were bright, lively, and very well rehearsed.

And they had an 18 piece orchestra in the pit who played wonderfully.

voices/LA And Shrimp

Marsha and Becky are singing with this group and they had a great concert in a beautiful church in Koreatown.

Here’s outside the church.

And as is tradition, we have to have our post concert meal. We went to Oh My Crab Louisiana Seafood and it was a lot of fun. You pick what you want from a not-too-extensive menu and they serve it all juiced up in a bag, really. We got shrimp, sausage, corn, and potato in lemon butter sauce. We had eaten about half of it before I took this picture. They serve it with plastic gloves and you eat it with your hands.

There were six guys at a table nearby, all of them having ordered the $39 all-you-can-eat special. Here’s a view of their table.

And here is one guys rubble. He got his money’s worth.

With Bonnie At Back On The Beach

Bonnie has recently finished many months living through cancer treatments – surgery then six rounds of chemo each three weeks apart. What an exhausting ordeal and every day she imagined enjoying the beach with her feet in the sand. And here we are!

It was bright, sunny, and breezy when we got there and then the fog rolled in and we still loved it.

Bonnie is giving herself a foot massage in the sand.

Lunch With Sharon And The Sun

Sharon and I had a lovely lunch, tasty, and in a very pleasant venue. We got a seat just inside the closed area so it was quiet.

Next comes two pictures from my house. The kitchen crystals only splash on the walls for a couple months. It is such a joy while it happens.

I was cleaning under the rug. This faded part gets a lot of window sun. I only notice the fading in comparison.

How Am I Doing mid-March 2026

My last round of tests, a PET scan, blood work, and a doctor’s appointment, produced very welcome results.  All the tests showed my bone lesions were better than in December and December’s results were better than in September.  Now instead of seeing the doctor every month I’ll be going every three months.  Better is Great! 

There are side effects though, most particularly fatigue and achy hips.  If the fatigue or any of the other side effects were so bad as to crush my quality of life, the doctor would change the medications but I’m ok, I might wear out but I can basically do what I need to do.  And since what I’ve been doing is working well re the cancer, I’m sticking with the current regime.

Are you following the budget cuts to medical research btw, both proposed and implemented by the Trump administration? Cancer research particularly, women’s health issues particularly.

FROM THE INTERNET (questionably true but you get it):

“I think my favorite thing that’s ever happened to me on the internet is the time a guy said “people change their minds when you show them facts” and I said “actually studies show that’s not true” and I linked Two sources and he said “yea well I still think it works”.

Happy Birthday Lona

My much older sister is 85. 85. Her plan for her birthday was to walk 8.5 miles down the coast with family and friends. I, although yes I am family, was not among those walking 8.5 miles, nor was my little sister Windy, but we all met up for lunch at a very splendid place called Oceans Cafe and Grill.

Christa and Zack. Awww.

For fun I got these pictures from Christa, of Lona’s GREAT Grandchildren. Caleb and Hannah’s Elliot making himself useful, and Peyton and Charis’s William. That’s Peyton’s baby picture next to William which is so crazy cute.

Huhhh?

I got hearing aids today! I’m going to keep track, for the next 2 weeks, of how often I say “I’m sorry, could you repeat that please?”.

Spencer And Rome

We had a nice stroll around Main Street stopping for snacks along the way.

This is part of a large fully mozaiced arch leading from one of the parking lots on to Main Street.

A new mural in the making.

Me And The Boys At The Broad

Rick, me, Jim

Rick and Jim got the tickets and invited me to join them to see the current headliner show Robert Therrien: This is a Story (November 22, 2025 to April 5, 2026). Thanks guys, I would have missed it!

If you can make it to The Broad in time you won’t be sorry.

(on a different floor)

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Pieces from around the museum.

From Camarillo, Moorpark, And Simi

Dean, Sam, Char, me, Steve, Burt, Celina (unfortunately Gideon couldn’t make it)

We gathered here at Freda’s on Sunday to enjoy good friends, good food, and a bright windy day.

On Saturday I spent the night with Steve and Celina in Camarillo which means Feast-O-Rama for me because Celina cooks. Look what we have here! Homemade chili rellenos, homemade refried beans, homemade Mexican-style rice, a scrumptious salad, and chips and guacamole. And then homemade heavenly flan.

Dean loves to eat at his Abuela’s and eagerly points for More .. one of his first words = More!

Recent Events In The Valley

Maxine puts on a St Patrick’s Day Feast.

Look what Marsha did. It was hydroplaning Camaro vs highway pole. Marsha was totally fine and now she’s drive “a red car”.

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Ann and I just had our hard-to-schedule New Year’s Sushi but I forgot to take a picture so here she is, back from a couple weeks in Hawaii. This is her daughter-in-law Ashley holding grandkids Isla and Keanu, then Ann, son Noah, and Kat, her college friend.

Happy Birthday Merlyn

Here are the usual suspects gathered at the Chez Bacchus Chef’s Table in celebration of Merlyn’s 75th birthday.

Happy Birthday Merlyn! Thank you for the party Hilda!

Carol, Alex, Mo, Debbie, Karen, Jim, Merlyn, Hilda, Mehzad, Sheri, Kevin

YUM!

Karen made the cake and it was delicious.

Cardboard Merlyn got to enjoy the party too. I’ve got to find out how Karen did this.

So many beverages on offer.

Carol, Kevin, Alex, Merlyn, Hilda, Mehzad, Sheri, me, Mo, Debbie, Karen, Jim

Chef Danny, Hilda, Merlyn

Walking Back From PT

This squirrel followed me down the street for a block. Urban squirrels can be quite domesticated.

This was Marsha’s centerpiece for Monday lunch.

As Has Been Happening

Here come some random pictures from February.

Noma has reopened across the street and it is very welcoming inside. I went there first with Rome and then with Jo Ann and Alan. Everyone agreed, we should go here again, and we will.

Oliver

This statue has been in the lobby of the Nuart for as long as I can remember, and the theater opened in 1930. There have been remodels and my memory is not 100% (I know I know) so I can’t even remember the first time I came to this Cinema as it was known. Maybe I was a teenager.

I went with my sisters to see Amadeus at the Pasadena Playhouse. It was good, always special to see live entertainment, but if you are really interested, rent the movie.

Fendi Fashion Week w/Jo Ann

Fendi is releasing a new line of shoes and purses and our Jo Ann conceived of and is leading the art side of the advertising campaign. Fendi shipped tons (literally, tons) of gear to LA and so many participants – multiples of hair, makeup, costumes, lights, electrical, staging, catering, models, props, costumes, etc etc, and even a seamstress. I got to hang around for a lot of Saturday and some Sunday too and what FUN.

Here come a lot of pictures taken with my phone in not the most favorable light, but I hope you can feel it for the event. Also leafed throughout are the final professional pictures. YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM TELLING THEIRS FROM MINE.

Most of the images are modeled after photos Jo Ann has taken over the years and you can find them in her books available on Amazon.

They had two walls for the order of work, Day 1 and Day 2, including Jo Ann’s drawings and product sheets. Then as they completed a shot they would take off the drawing and put up just a quick sample print.

As you look through the pictures notice all the couches, chairs, tables, chests, backdrops, etc all brought in for this shoot.

I didn’t see any of this one.

Or this one.

They partitioned off a section of the huge room for wardrobe, hair, and makeup, and importantly, for the featured shoes and bags.

Shoes.

A seamstress at the ready.

I wasn’t there for this set-up on Day 1 but Meriellen was there and took this picture. I was around for maybe 6 hours total over the three long days, Prep Day, Shoot Day 1, and Shoot Day 2. They decided to redo this..

..and I got to catch a little of it. The monitor that you see below is an essential part of the effort. Everything that comes out of the camera is instantly available here.

The props guy brought all different sizes of these plants, for choice. You can see how they are used in the monitor above.

Day 1

Day 2

Mariellen and Alan chatting up one of the models.

This is another time I wasn’t there for the first idea (it’s Meriellen’s picture) but..

..I was there when they redid it. They couldn’t get the bag to show right and they used that string for placement which they will spot out in post-production.

Notice everyone gathered around that monitor.

So much involvement on all sides.

I missed the bag in all of these candle pictures but the most fun thing was the smoke. Looks like they’re not going to use the smoke pictures but rather just the model lighting a match, or maybe lighting the candles? I enjoyed the smoke so much I didn’t get a picture without it.

Check out the guy under the table – I don’t know what he’s doing there.

In this image I think they are only going to use the arms and the bag although they did go to the trouble of putting the models in fancy new shoes. Those outlines are just an artifact of telephoto on my phone I’m guessing?

I’ll say it again later, everyone there was delightful and even in moments of stress it didn’t seem to me that anyone was taking it out on anyone else.

I grabbed one last blurry shot on my way out.

It was quite amazing to me that I just hung around in the background trying to stay out of the way and every single person was cheery and kind, offering me a seat or some water or a chat with not a single side-eye among them. There’s a lot of pressure in a situation like this because time-is-money (and a lot of money!) and they’ve got to get it right. I was expecting you might be able to cut the tension with that cake knife that didn’t get used, but it didn’t bleed over to me. Thanks to everyone for letting me enjoy myself entirely!

It’s over now, let’s dance!

This Was Fun

Mick, Richard, Ken, Carl, Ben, Josh

I’m so happy that there have been a lot of getting-together these days. Here’s a jr high-high school-college crowd, and thanks Richard for making it happen with the plan to keep up meeting the last Tuesday of the month. You know me, I love a plan.

Gustavo Conducts Missa Solemnis

We often stopped breathing so breathtaking was this performance.

COPIED FROM THE DISNEY CONCERT HALL WEBSITE

Gustavo Dudamel brings together the massive choral and orchestral forces and even grander musical ideas of Beethoven’s Missa solemnis. “From my heart, may it go to the heart,” Beethoven wrote at the top of his “Solemn Mass,” and privately he told friends he believed it to be his best composition. Yet, the epic, near-90-minute testament of Beethoven’s faith grounded in human and Rationalist spirituality is a rarity in concert halls because of its ambitious scale, leading Beethoven biographer Jan Swafford to call it “one of the greatest pieces never heard.” With a stellar cast of soloists and 125 voices from Barcelona’s Orfeó Català chorus, Dudamel navigates the shifting landscapes of Beethoven’s transcendent and revelatory masterwork.

A note from Gustavo Dudamel

The Missa Solemnis is, for me, the holy grail of the symphonic repertoire. At its core, it is about faith—faith in something greater than ourselves. Beethoven had to invent a new musical architecture for his solemn mass, and each time I look at the score I find a new room. The piece itself is incredibly difficult, with almost impossible requirements for singers, for orchestra, and for chorus, which creates this overwhelming feeling. It makes me believe in another dimension of greatness and beauty.  

This weekend marks my first time conducting the Missa Solemnis. Often conductors will wait until they have reached a certain level of maturity and expertise before they perform it. Some are still waiting. After 17 years of this fruitful artistic relationship with the Los Angeles Philharmonic, I felt that now was a perfect time to attempt it together, along with our four extremely talented soloists and two choruses.  

As musicians, we are often asked which works are our favorite or what is the best. It’s difficult to say. But we do know that Beethoven considered this his greatest accomplishment, and that is remarkable. —Gustavo Dudamel

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After the concert we walked over to the Conrad Hotel bar area across the street from the DCH to take that first picture. We also found a restaurant on the ground level that was tasty, comfortable, and didn’t break the bank. And then leaving the parking structure was a breeze.

What I do every time these days. (“No, you won’t remember”.)

At The Landmark Nuart On Santa Monica

Marsha and I just saw the Live Action Shorts and it was the best collection that either of us could remember after having seen many many years of Academy Award nominated shorts. Go if you can! We’re going to see the Animated Shorts on Wednesday. I don’t know about the Documentary Shorts yet.

And after the show I ate Tom’s Tacos with Tom, Marsha, Kelly, Kris, John, Jen, and Jordan. More fun!

Moving Along Academy Awards-wise

I mentioned yesterday about the chores and eating out. In-between I’ve caught a few more Academy Award nominations.

Hamnet (losing their son to plague, with so much crying.)

Marty Supreme (Chalamet getting to the ping pong tournament, with so much screaming.)

One Battle After Another (Paul Thomas Anderson, DiCaprio, Penn, del Toro “When their evil enemy resurfaces after 16 years, a group of ex-revolutionaries reunite to rescue the daughter of one of their own.” I’ll watch it again since I didn’t quite get the charm.)

Train Dreams (slow moving quiet tragic life that many found touching)

Jay Kelly (Clooney, Sandler self-centered movie star and his devoted manager, and me not caring about either of them)

Bugonia (SO odd and violent but I liked it anyway)

Sinners (talk about odd and violent, both genius and horrifying, and far too many vampires)

Sentimental Value (more than half in Swedish, it was touching. Spoiler: the main character did not redeem himself.)

Blue Moon (a sad getting-to-know-you piece, especially good if you like musical theater)

Chores So Many

For the last several days I’ve been going out to eat mostly with friends, sometimes not, because I’ve been trying, unsuccessfully, to get through my To Do list. But I have made a dent. For example I’m putting away the Christmas Tree… and I downloaded TurboTax…

The Getty Villa With A First-Timer

Emilia had never been to the Villa and Richard and Mick last visited decades ago. We had a delightful morning of coffees and some garlic fries, and then a good tour, and then we went off for lunch.

Here are pictures of a few of the classic views.

And Back on the Beach, always a joy. This picture is from their website.

At The Water Garden

This scene catches my eye every time I walk by, which happens when I meet Darryl for lunch at Tiato.

A Bow Nails Art Project

Lilly is quite the fingernail design maven! Today we did a little shopping for Lilly to buy Valentine’s Day gifts. It was fun!

And also I had a nice coffee with Angela at The Boy and the Bear and we walked there. Thanks Angela for the comfortable pace.

And here’s a picture of how my house looked today, mid-February. So many kumquats, I’m excited for them to ripen.

The Aquarium Of The Pacific

Mid-morning on a Wednesday it’s not so crowded although buses of children did arrive from time to time, it was easy to find a place to stand for as long as you’d like in front of any of the exhibits. Alex and Carol joined me and then Merlyn came by for lunch at Shenanigans.

There’s a Black Rockfish and a Kelp Rockfish. I don’t know which this is, or it could be something else entirely since I’m asking google’s AI so who knows. “Both are species of rockfish (genus Sebastes), which encompasses over 100 species with a variety of colors, sizes, and shapes. They are long-living fishes, with some species living up to 200 years.”

I thought the hand in the back was cool-looking.

Blue-banded Goby (also known as a Catalina Goby). This little guy was one or two inches long.

Purple-striped Jellyfish (Chrysaora colorata), a species primarily found off the coast of California. 

Probably another Rockfish.

The lorikeet exhibit is very fun. There’s a huge aviary for dozens of people to wander around in and over a hundred birds flying about. What’s a flock of lorikeets called? A chattering, which is perfect.

It’s included to get in and you can pay $5 for food guaranteeing birds will find you very attractive.

Wow, that’s a shark and the largest ray I’ve ever seen.

It was so delightful to hear all the kids shouting out “It’s Rubber Ducky..Look look at Rubber Ducky!”.

Spot-fin porcupinefish (Diodon hystrix), also commonly known as a spotted porcupinefish. It puffs up with water making spines visible.

Monday’s Ladies Who Lunch

We have our pot luck every Monday out in the valley where I used to live and I drive out there most weeks. Birthdays are so much fun and here we have February’s celebrants – Ljubica, Alicia, and Marija. We give each other rude cards and twenty bucks, and once again as is ever the case, we had no card duplicates.

Visiting The Palisades With Sharon

First we had a nice lunch, gotta have lunch, and then we decided to have a swing by Sharon’s neighborhood destroyed by the fire. I thought I’d be able to get better pictures off the internet but none of them looked like what we saw. Above is Sharon’s lot. We could tell because the back side of a fountain survived. Below is more of the lot.

The US Army Corp of Engineers scraped all the burned ground about 6 inches deep removing contaminated soil, ash, and structural debris. A lot of weeds are grown in and every block or two had a couple houses being built. I’m not saying rebuilt because there was nothing left and I expect everything will be coming back bigger.

Here’s an aerial from the internet before the removal project.

Hilda’s Mom And Son

Hilda stopped by after taking her son Raffi to visit her mom’s grave, in honor of the 5th year of mom’s passing. On the other side of the frame is a picture in the same pose of Hilda kissing Raffi’s forehead. It’s a beautiful thing.

Hilda brought a Persian sweet treat most often shared at funerals and the anniversary of the passing of a loved one. It’s called halvah and it turns out there are two very different types, the kind you get at the deli made of crushed sesame seeds, and the Persian kind made with toasted flour. I’d never had the flour kind before(!) and it was delicious.

Susie And I Went To LACMA

We first saw the Collecting Impressionism at LACMA exhibit which was interesting and I was glad to have seen it and then we saw a real museum highlight, an exhibition of the work of Tavares Strachan called The Day Tomorrow Began that left us slack-jawed. It’s on until March 29 and you won’t be sorry if you can get there. It’s a wowzer for sure.

There’s too much to say about the few objects here and the many more in the show. Here is the LA Times review of the exhibit with plenty of words.

“Some loads are too heavy to carry alone.”

We are a few months late but, you know, it’s always something. Happy Birthday Susie!

Miscellaneous To Finish Up January

Above, Darryl brought his team from around the US to Santa Monica for meetings, and some FUN!

Yup, I still haven’t put away the tree! I got it up so late, I didn’t do it for a few years, and I still haven’t got a picture that feels right.

Muriel and her favorite helper Allie. I took Muriel to see some assisted living places just to get a feel for what’s available.

One of the dining rooms.

All my curls are gone from the 100 hairs that I still have on my head. The hair cutter was doing her best.

Albert And Guðbjörg

Guðbjörg took me around Reykjavík for several days when I was in Iceland in 2022 and now she’s here visiting her boyfriend Albert. The connection is through Hilda – thank you Hilda!

We enjoy lunch at Casa del Mar, one of my favorite spots to relax and visit.

(photo below from Albert)

Then we finished the afternoon with a coffee in my yard and we picked a bag of oranges for Albert to take home.

Let’s try to pronounce Guðbjörg = “Guðbjörg is pronounced GVOÐ-byorg (approximate IPA: /ˈkvʏð.pjœrk/). It is an Icelandic name broken down as “Goo-th” (with a soft, voiced ‘th’ like ‘the’) + “byorg” (with a short ‘o’ sound, often resembling a “u” or “y” sound in English, and a ‘g’ that can sound like a ‘k’).” And here’s what another source says: g-uthbyeurh(is)

A Flash From The Past

Robert treated me to lunch today. I hired him back at Crystal in the early early days, so long ago, and he’s made a wonderful life for himself and his family. It’s a beautiful thing!

A Walk With Lynn

We enjoyed a stroll along Palisades Park with a rest for my benefit before the turn-around, and then lunch on the porch of the Georgian Hotel. We were Ladies Who Lunch and by the end of the day I had more than 9,000 steps.

Richard And Emilia Hosted

Thank you Ken for the picture!

Lynn, Ken, Susie, Shelly, Joyce, Emilia, Carl, me, Richard, Josh, Mick, Dan, Ben

WOW, what a great gathering, everyone was so pleased. Thank you Richard for making it happen in honor of those of us who have passed. Goodness, we’ve know each other for a very long time.

Feb 23 2:30p In Italy

Meriellen’s cover shot.

Fendi is releasing a new line of shoes and purses and our Jo Ann conceived of and is leading the art side of the advertising campaign. Fendi shipped tons (literally, tons) of gear to LA and so many participants – multiples of hair, makeup, costumes, lights, electrical, staging, catering, models, props, costumes, etc etc, and even a seamstress. I got to hang around for a lot of Saturday and some Sunday too and what FUN.

I can tell more about it and show so many pictures that you will beg for mercy, but none with product until the release date. I promised!

Meriellen and Alan were there for the Friday setup and all of Saturday then Meriellen went home to Chicago while Alan stuck with it through all of Sunday too. I’m excited to put up the rest of the pictures and to see how the chosen ones turned out.

Happy Birthday Angela!

A couple pictures from Darryl – Thanks! Angela, Lilly, me, Liz, Gary, Rome, Darryl. Yumm, and then cake and ice cream and gifts, a game, walking the dog, all together a lovely day.

You Can Still Go To The Mall

Lilly and I had lunch at Lilly favorite restaurant, Din Tai Fung in the Del Amo Mall. It was tasty and we always have fun. Then Angela met us and we all looked at dresses for Lilly’s high school Winter Dance. Flash from the past!

Below is an internet picture from a high school dance in 1963 when I was 16 as Lilly is today. I’ll add a picture of Lilly in her dress when she decides. It won’t look like this.

Of Course We’d Rather Be Home

But sometimes that’s just not possible or even the best solution for an engaging life. I’m thinking to have a plan already worked out when/if being home is not happening, and many of my aging friends are thinking the same.

Since I have lived modestly and saved money with the intention of being prepared to be comfortable until age 96, and since that is ever so unlikely considering, you know, cancer, I’m ready to pick a really nice place.

There are a couple on Ocean Avenue looking at Palisades Park and the blue Pacific but they are small without many activities. Below are a couple right here in Westwood touting their chefs, facilities, and their relationship with UCLA.

Calligraphy Westwood Village

Belmont Village Westwood

Kickin’ It With My Sisters

me, Lona, Windy

When I say I have a spectacularly large head, you can see it here. We are on the same plane, the camera is the same distance away, and yet my head dominates the scene.

Plaza At The Water Garden

Darryl often joins me for lunch on Fridays and today I walked over to his office at the Water Garden. We went to a nearby restaurant/patio and had a lovely time in the most amazing weather, a warm, sunny, winter’s breeze.

Lilly’s Hair

The color is fading – it was purple to start and I suppose it will be purple again. It’s so eye-catching when we’re out for a walk.

Here’s Darryl’s great choice for an electric piano. I think it looks so cool (Angela’s decor of course), it sounds wonderful, and it has every feature.

A Full House

Nakissa, me, Judy, Maniya, Marzi, Luna, Susan, Victoria, Hilda

We had a full house today at our book group get together. We started out with Persian Poetry and now we’re reading The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. It takes a while for us to get through a book because first we catch up with everyone’s personal stories and then we read the book during the meeting, each person reading a page or so, and then we talk about it.

It’s such a cozy feeling. I’ve mentioned cozy twice now, first when we had all those rainy days and now again. Cozy is a lovely way to feel.

Do It!

I signed up today and it was easy. Now I’m on the email list and getting ready for the deluge of offers. It’s exciting! I’ve been thinking about, and hoping for, the Olympics ever since LA applied. 1984 was so great! And after I got sick I got even more desirous of making it to the Olympics.

First, I’m feeling dang, (and maybe unrealistically?) optimistic that I’ll make it to 80 in a year and a half, and then the Olympics are not far behind. Oh goodie!

Going To The Movies

Marsha and I have gone to the movies a few times recently, and a lot of the Golden Globe nominations are already streaming. And I can’t even remember the name of the movie I saw this morning! You can see Marsha there in the middle of the middle of the theater.

Here’s a list of the Golden Globe nominations that I’ve seen:

Hamnet (losing their son to plague, with so much crying.)

Marty Supreme (Chalamet getting to the ping pong tournament, with so much screaming.)

One Battle After Another (Paul Thomas Anderson, DiCaprio, Penn, del Toro “When their evil enemy resurfaces after 16 years, a group of ex-revolutionaries reunite to rescue the daughter of one of their own.” I’ll watch it again since I didn’t quite get the charm.)

Train Dreams (slow moving quiet tragic life that many found touching)

Jay Kelly (Clooney, Sandler self-centered movie star and his devoted manager, and me not caring about either of them)

Rome And Juno

Rome and Juno came around for a visit and they got to meet the new tenant and it turned out they all had a lot in common. It was fun!

We’ve Got Drivers

This is Lilly’s first outing behind the wheel (Angela took the picture) and Rome with their car that now has its own parking spot at the Co-op. Rome drove over to help me finish up in the studio doing the chores I can’t/don’t want to do for the new tenant who is settled in for a four month internship at the UCLA Medical Center.

Snacks

I met up with Angela at 1 for a snack and a beverage and a walk to the ocean and since we had a little time left, we got our cars washed. Then I picked up Lilly at school and we went off in search of a snack and ended up at our favorite place, Yogurtland. Lilly always creates designer bowls of delights.

Black and white Converse are so photogenic and then add Oliver and it’s click click click.

Canter’s & Ben & Bonnie & Bananas

I picked up some lunch for us to eat outside on Ben and Bonnie’s deck. It was a gorgeous day. Above is the mural on the side of the Canter’s building. There are many more panels than shown here, telling the history of the Jewish people in Los Angeles. Yummy bananas – I took one home!

Fingers Crossed For 2026

(At this rate fingers seem not Nearly enough.)

New Year’s morning at Tom and Marsha’s as I have done many times before – come NYEve afternoon, watch movies, eat a delicious dinner, catch the New York New Year’s Eve on TV and get ready for bed. In the morning we have coffee and an early breakfast snack, watch the Rose Parade a few times on rerun, and eat ham sandwiches for lunch. That’s what we do and I look forward to it!

The eagles came by in the worst of the rain but they were everyone’s favorite. This is the 11th time it’s rained on the parade since it started in 1890.

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BTW this year’s wine was SO GOOD. Goodness, I’m going to be wanting more of that!

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