Daily Life 2012

Windy came by with…

December 29

Windy came by with her New Phone, her first actual Smart Phone, and she’s having f.u.n, although we were laughing a little too hard for the light in the room…

Angela sent this picture of the girls having finished the puzzle I gave Rome at Christmas. At Rome’s school they have a huge map of the States painted on the playground and when I pick her up we usually take a few minutes to talk about who lives where or like last time she asked me ‘is Pennsylvania next to Maine?’. Cool.

w/ak

Rain….

Rain.

Instead of a many miles walk at Pepperdine and lunch at the Getty Villa it’s underground parking to the completely covered Hammer Museum. A nice day anyway.

What Cynthia, Mike, and…

December 28

What Cynthia, Mike, and Kieran were up to over the holiday .. at Mike’s brother’s place in North Dakota where the temperature was mostly ZERO (-18c), +/- a few degrees. WOW is right. Thanks Cynth for the great selection of pictures from which to choose!

There are a few other shots of the dog who looks like an awesome ranch dog. There are cats too that I’m supposing they keep around the barn for their hunting skills.

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D&A went out for…

December 27 evening

D&A went out for a date and this is what Rome and Lilly and I made for dessert. Smiley Faces!

Two sets of sisters…

December 27

Two sets of sisters (friends from the new neighborhood), two dads, one mom, and a granny, and we’re off for a crystal clear day at the Getty Center.

Finley, Rome, Avery, Lilly

These four did so…

These four did so nicely together. I thought they were like a bunch of cats, entirely happy to be playing with the box. Darryl pointed out they were actually playing with each other. So true.

Lilly, Avery, Rome, Finley

I mentioned it was…

I mentioned it was clear.

That’s the 405, then Century City and UCLA, then downtown, the set of buildings in the far distance at the upper left.

More fun than a…

More fun than a barrel of monkeys! or as in the case of the girls’ new slippers, more fun than a herd of unicorns.

From Sharon, where she…

December 23

From Sharon, where she is for the holidays. In the snow. This is the place in Steamboat Springs we visited in the summer when it looked quite different.

It seems they’ve got so much snow even the heated driveway can’t keep a clear path!

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The Kings! Windy’s…

December 22

The Kings! Windy’s eldest son Lucas and his adorable sweetheart family Betsy, Xander, and Anya.

This is the family that lives near Seattle and you’ll find a bit of their life in my chapters on Seattle because those times are my best chances to visit with them.

And speaking of Windy, YES, the carpet went IN, and all the ceilings and walls and floors are done Done. Oh Happy Day. Lucas and Betsy – the guest room awaits!

(Holiday Greetings photo)

Lona and Hartley decided…

December 21 evening

Lona and Hartley decided to have a festive Christmas get-together before they left the next day for Hawaii.

Lona made our mother’s Happy Birthday Baby Jesus Cake! Our mother made this cake for years and periodically one or the other of us will make it in respect of her. It’s fun!

I should note that after our mother’s passing I made the first one and I made it with Sara Lee Pound Cake (you make it the night before, slice the pound cake cross-wise into thin layers, add bananas and whipped cream between each layer, yum) instead of the homemade cake our mother produced. I just remembered! She made the two cakes (it ended up quite tall) in heart shaped pans and this was the pink plate she used.

But…everyone agrees the Sara Lee version is delicious!

Hartley is not so…

Hartley is not so much into the cake so he got a bowl of whipped cream. L&H leave their dining room table always set for 14 because you never know .. like our mother .. always prepared to feed the British army just in case they happen to stop by.

This is Titi, Lona and Hartley’s latest protĂ©gĂ© and she is fabulous, a smart and an incredibly motivated, hard-working young woman from Eritrea.

Windy and Jeff were there too, and Geraldine, and me.

Lona and Hartley are…

Lona and Hartley are off to Hawaii to spend the holidays with their son Trevor and his dear family Beth, Christa, Caleb, and Charis all of whom I find utterly delightful with their entirely sincere and open-hearted kindness.

(Holiday Greetings photo)

Liz and I went…

December 21

Liz and I went for a grand tour at the Gamble House in Pasadena today.

It’s a Greene and Greene Arts and Crafts masterpiece, the woodworking was simply stunning. We walked around slack-jawed. And GAGA for the stained glass.

(internet pix)

This is a watercolor…

This is a watercolor by J Hill that I got off the internet because I think it has an especially good feeling for the place.

What it’s been like…

What it’s been like these days. Cold and clear, and awesome.

(not my picture .. skimmed off the internet. Funny! it looks like the same one I picked in 2010 from the LA Times.)

No pictures of the…

December 19

No pictures of the kids but we had a big fun busy day. And speaking of spending time with kids .. this made me laugh.

It’s the Monday Night…

December 17

It’s the Monday Night Christmas Party, and everyone was there!

For many years now we’ve been doing this party at Alicia’s with a full-on Thanksgiving Dinner menu. I Really like it. For one thing, Alicia cooks with the angels. She used to do everything but in recent years she passes out the recipes and assignments and people contribute some, but we all know it’s Alicia’s dinner. Oh we do have a good time.

Ljubica, me, Maxine, Marija, Ann, Alicia, Becky Marsha, Lourdes, Maryanne.

(Maxine’s hor d’oeuvre tray; Alicia’s rolls that everyone begs for all year, her always spectacular roast turkey, dressing, gravy, cranberry-apple-marshmallow salad; Maryanne brought ingredients; Lourdes’ cranberry sauce; Becky’s thousand calorie mashed potatoes; Ann’s sweet potato and pecan delight; Marija’s green beans; Marsha’s dessert; Ljubica’s Martinellis; my 3 bottles of pretty tasty Prosecca that was well enjoyed especially since we usually drink one bottle of wine during a regular dinner!)

It’s time for Knut…

December 16

It’s time for Knut and Brigitte’s annual holiday slipper party and they are Not Here. This is their card. Nice, but not a party. They have retired and relocated to Belgium when the weather is nice there and to Portugal when it is not.

HEY you guys, come home, it’s perfect weather here All The Time! (OK ok, so your family and many (but by no means all!) of your friends are in Europe, still…)

(Holiday Greetings photo)

Windy and Jeff’s home…

December 15

Windy and Jeff’s home in a great Santa Monica location, this > < close to finishing all the refurbishments of the ceilings, walls, windows, and floors. This > < close. Oh Happy Day. How long have they been at it? For EVER. More forever than I can possibly imagine. But This > < Close!

Rome and I took…

December 12

Rome and I took the pictures for her Christmas card and planned out how the card might look and what she’d like it to say.

All the pictures were her ideas and it was a Lot of fun to do. (I love those cutie little toes peeking out from the dresses – barefoot at the beach for Christmas.)

Becky was available to…

December 10

Becky was available to host Monday Night Potluck because look what happened December 7!

Becky’s daughter birthed her third child and here we have the whole family: Matt and Kelly, Lana, Makaio, and baby Kamea. Mazel Tov!

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I walked down to…

December 9

I walked down to the beach today and back for the first time since I’ve been sick.

In between the walking Sharon and Nancy and I had lunch, strolled around the Promenade, and saw Silver Linings Playbook which was very sweet and happily-ever-after.

Maxine had her annual…

December 8

Maxine had her annual Christmas Party and it was wonderful as always, festive and delicious. All her kids were there, and Max was happy.

The kids (and the grandkids): Dirk; Shirley (Quan); Tiffany (Daeja, Jaedin, Jacob); James (Sydney, Kelsey, James)

And then we strolled…

And then we strolled through the neighborhood before enjoying a delicious night-before-the-first-night-of-Hanukkah dinner at Rustic Canyon.

This is the first day since November 14th that I haven’t taken an allergy pill. I’m not sick .. I’m 92% well!

Ann and I had…

December 6

Ann and I had sushi for lunch. Ahhhh, ummmm. There is nothing nothing a person can eat for lunch that is as satisfying, as beautiful and entertaining, as splendid as a sushi lunch.

I spent the day…

December 5

I spent the day shopping and watching all the episodes of The Neighbors. The Neighbors totally made me Laugh Out Loud. And shopping from the comfort of ones BED, what’s to complain!

Mindy is home from…

December 4

Mindy is home from Zambia for the holidays. She’s going into her fifth year in Africa. By this time next year, or sooner, she’ll have moved on and it’s exciting to wonder where that will be.

Ken, me, Mindy, Bill (Mindy’s “Daddy” .. Daddy when she wants something that is…just Dad otherwise)

Burt, Wow, Solar Panels….

December 3

Burt, Wow, Solar Panels. It takes a lot of juice to cool a house in the summer in Simi Valley.

I wish I had taken a picture of those adorable, sweet and gentle grandboys that Burt and Charlene are raising. John is almost 13 and taller than I am, and Bradley is 10. My friends, I ask you to pause for a moment and imagine yourself in charge of all those raging hormones. You go B&C, you GO.

The Valley Performing Arts…

December 2

The Valley Performing Arts Center at CSUN, opened in January 2011, this is my first visit.

(Which has reminded me of other local performing arts centers such as the Redondo Beach Performing Arts Center, Thousand Oaks Civic Art Plaza, Long Beach Performing Arts Center .. and so many more. Just check out LA Weekly Calendar at some point. Have a taste for some particular entertainment? It’s here.)

We came to hear…

We came to hear the Colburn Orchestra and they were really quite wonderful.

Our first seats were assigned at Will Call in the exact center in the first row of the upper balcony. No one was sitting in front of us and the view was good but too far back to see any faces.

So after the intermission we moved to The most perfect seats as noted by the arrow.

It was a free concert – if tickets were for sale we would never have had the chance for The most perfect seats, so yay for free concerts!

The Century City Shopping…

December 1

The Century City Shopping Center, dressed up for Holiday Shopping. There are many more of these decorated reindeer around. That one with the hands is weird. Nancy, Sharon, and I had a good lunch at Obika Mozzarella Bar in the Mall and then saw Life of Pi.

We saw it in 3-D and I am so done with 3-D. I’m not seeing any more 3-D if I can help it until there’s another advance in technology. Maybe people with good eyes can enjoy it but not me.

That said it’s pretty beautiful and veeery long. If you have the least doubt about ‘getting it’ as I did, you can read some analysis either before or after you see it. Now I’m a fan, at least of the story.

Nancy went home and…

Nancy went home and Sharon and I drove on, past the new sculpture along the Avenue of the Stars meridian. There are 22 of these works by Gwynn Murrill.

They’ll be here until October 2013. I want them to stay forever.

(internet pix)

Then we went to…

Then we went to the Annenberg Space for Photography – free to visit and $1 to park. Each show lasts 4-6-8 months and I try to catch them all since they are Wonderful.

No pictures of the…

November 29

No pictures of the girls from yesterday but I should say that Lilly is still entirely delighted with her pee-pee and poo-poo in the potty parades and her chart is full of stickers.

I went to LACMA with Nancy and Sharon to catch the new offerings. Caravaggio .. a matter of taste but still all these important pictures are here for you to look at as well as many works by the artists Caravaggio influenced. It’s one of the blockbuster shows for which you have the privilege of paying twenty bucks to enjoy.

In the Resnick Pavilion,…

In the Resnick Pavilion, leading into the Caravaggio show is another of the modern installations that so tickle my fancy.

This is a Walter De Maria work first exhibited in 1992 in Zurich.

That’s Nancy and Sharon taking in the angles.

These objects have 5,…

These objects have 5, 7, and 9 sides. They are all painted the same color of white white. Where they are situated in the Pavilion light falls from the full glass walls on both ends and from the open ceiling causing all the facets to be constantly changing colors. I thought it was awesome.

Then we went over…

Then we went over to see the HUGE Stanley Kubrick exhibit. It was like walking through the looking glass into a life-sized scrapbook of Stanley Kubrick’s mind.

Just as an example there are cases and cases displaying old typewritten script pages and the handwritten notes marking changes and emphasis that really are gripping. There’s video playing everywhere, costumes, stills around the set, technical equipment .. like Nancy said, it makes you want to see all the movies all over again.

(Fear and Desire (1953), Killer’s Kiss (1955), The Killing (1956), Paths of Glory (1957), Uncredited work on One-Eyed Jacks (1961), Spartacus (1960), Lolita (1962), Dr. Strangelove (1964), 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968), Napoleon..an unrealized film, A Clockwork Orange (1971), Barry Lyndon (1975), The Shining (1980), Full Metal Jacket (1987), Eyes Wide Shut (1999), Work on A. I. Artificial Intelligence)

Marsha always wanted a…

November 25

Marsha always wanted a driveway that would hold a lot of cars and here they are, a lot of Monday Night cars and there’s one inside the garage too – Marsha’s new treasure, a brand spanking new shiny-&** Camaro.

I met Lori, who’s…

November 24

I met Lori, who’s known Nancy for years and is a long-time friend of Muriel and Muriel’s sister, at Muriel’s open house. Lori has moved back to Santa Monica from a long relocation in Idyllwild, so I said hey, let’s go for a walk, and we did. Lori lives on 5th off Ocean Park so it’s an easy stroll to the beach.

And since Windy also lives off Ocean Park I stopped off there on the way home and we said to each other hmmm, isn’t this just the day for a foot massage, which, since every day is such a day, we treated ourselves to the luxury.

Later I watched the kids so D&A could have a Date Night. What a nice day for ME!

The day after Thanksgiving…

November 23

The day after Thanksgiving .. heck yeah, time for another Thanksgiving Feast thanks to Celina and Steve.

Squash and apple soup, persimmon salad, amazing sautéed green beans, baked Brussels sprouts, baked yams, Turkey and Dressing and Gravy, and two kinds of pie all personally made, down to the bread for the bread crumbs on the green beans, by our Celina.

Ronald came to eat too, and we were all Happy.

What an exciting day!…

November 22

What an exciting day! Lilly did a pee-pee in the potty! Pee-pee in the pot-ty. We did a pee-pee in the potty parade and Lilly got the first star on her pee-pee in the potty chart. Oh happy day.

Our Thanksgiving Feast!…

Our Thanksgiving Feast!

Stuffed acorn squash, baked beets, mushroom casserole, mashed potatoes, orange and fennel salad, carrots and parsnips with onion flakes (not done yet)…

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Oh yeah….

Oh yeah.

Thanks Angela for the food shots AND the lovely day.

ak.

(Note for next year – for a full oven, nuke each half separately for 5 minutes, bake at 350 covered for 1 hour, uncovered for 30 minutes, sit covered 15-30 minutes.)

Pictures of Hilda and…

November 20

Pictures of Hilda and Merlyn at Roy’s in Oahu and a surfer at the mighty North Shore, both from Merlyn.

We had a delightful catch-me-up lunch at the oh-so-trendy Gjelina. Yes, Trendy = Noisy, but we lucked out with a table in the back patio in the corner and enjoyed ourselves entirely.

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Cynthia, Mike, and Kieran…

November 19

Cynthia, Mike, and Kieran in Minnesota, out for Mike and Kieran’s first ski trip. Mike writes that by the end of the day Kieran was racing ahead full speed down the hill. You go!

mh, cc.

Angela sent this picture….

November 18

Angela sent this picture. It’s Lilly calling me on ‘her phone’. Apparently we had a long ‘conversation’ full of great enthusiasm and expressiveness on Lilly’s part. Oh yeah.

I’m better. Hurray! I went to bed Thursday afternoon and got up Sunday mid-morning. Maybe that’s the trick, just stay in bed, to a quicker recovery since, although not 100%, I’m at a solid 85.

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I’m sick. I…

November 16

I’m sick. I was sick yesterday and I assume I’ll be sick tomorrow. Same Old Same Old! Hacking cough, sore throat, running nose. Always the SAME. You’d Think there would be a cure.

An allergy update:
2012 June first in MN on into LA; November at home
2011 March in MN; November after W’s wedding
2010 February; June (both mild)
2009 December at home
2007 November during the fires
2006 March just back from Hawaii
2005 April; June; October; (now that was a bad year!)

From Nancy, from the…

From Nancy, from the day at the art studios open house. It was SO extra cool to have the kids there. It’s true that adage about seeing things though a child’s eyes. I just love to hear them tell about what they are seeing.

Time to change out…

November 13

Time to change out the ‘refrigerator door’. I take everything down, put it in a one quart baggie, and stack the baggies out in the garage.

From the top left: an origami crane that I always have some of around, a strip of DKA&L photos from 2011, a Levitated Potato from my Road Trip with Sharon, the charms from Istanbul-Jerusalem-Rome, crafts from Rome. Top right: another of the great flying pig cards from N Donald, a hula girl from my yearly trip to the land of Aloha, bills from my trips to Africa, China, and Vietnam, a gift from my host in Rome, one of my mother’s turtles, the chair I’m lusting after, the corsage from Cynthia’s wedding, the cranes that I can’t give up (I see they’ve been there since at least 2008).

Here are some more:
2011
2010
2009
2008

Nancy rode the airport…

November 11

Nancy rode the airport bus from Santa Barbara down to LAX where I picked her up and we spent a totally delightful day eating, not drinking, and making merry enjoying the open house at the art studios in Muriel’s building.

Nancy ran into many old friends including Lori who lives in Santa Monica.

Darryl, Angela, Rome, and…

Darryl, Angela, Rome, and Lilly came by too making it all extra special fun for me.

Rome wanted to understand about everything she saw and I suggested she could ask the artists ‘what were you thinking about when you made this?’ which she did and it generated some very interesting stories.

I’ve been on a…

November 9

I’ve been on a movie going extravaganza the last 10 days or so, all of them dang good. In order of how much I appreciated them: Argo, Lincoln, Flight.

Dinner at Celina’s…

November 10

Dinner at Celina’s restaurant, Cooks County. Actually a feast at Celina’s restaurant. We had 8 of the first course and salad dishes, 2 sides, 5 mains, and 6 desserts. Earlier in the day Celina had made All the desserts and we had one of each. We had several selections of good wine to go with it all too. Oh lucky lucky us.

Steve, his brother Sam visiting from New York who treated us to this feast, me, Ronald, Gideon, Celina

Watching Lilly sleep. …

November 7

Watching Lilly sleep. When Rome got home from school we made a nice picnic snack and when Lilly got up we walked over to the park around the corner. It was a fun day!

Their new dining room…

Their new dining room light, in Redondo Beach.

From their old neighborhood in Sherman Oaks Darryl’s commute was an unpredictable 1-2 hours each way and is now a reliable exact 14 minutes. Wow YAY is right.

I went down to…

November 5

I went down to Union Station to meet Liz who was coming in by MetroLink from La Puente.

Our last stop was…

Our last stop was a stroll through Old Chinatown, and then we walked back to the train station. Liz was wearing her pedometer and we logged over 15,000 steps. Good for us!

Later that night, part…

Later that night, part of Monday’s potluck dinner and what happens when everyone brings what they want. There were seven tonight and we had four salads. Three of the salads had avocado. No problem, yum actually.

I’ve been lusting after…

I’ve been lusting after the chair on the right for ages. It is the most comfortable chair I have ever sat in but since you can only get it at Des$gn Within Reach (ha, whose reach would that be), it’s not mine yet.

Then I saw the one on the l$$ft and wanted it more. But I’ve never sat in it and now that they are side by side I can see why the one on the right is so comfortable – a little more upright but still low and not too deep.

One of these days…

I had dinner with…

November 2

I had dinner with Bill last night and lunch with Boban today. I’ve been Crystalized! Thanks guys, too much fun.

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