Daily Life 2007

Mostly Melicent.

What have I been…

June 9

What have I been up to for the last 30 hours or so? This:

Eat lunch with Robert at Olvera Street.
Pick up Cynthia at Union Station for our Mother’s Day-Birthday fete.
Go to LACMA and enjoy the Dan Flavin exhibit again.
Eat a deelicious dinner at violet. It’s at the old Sabor location and we were both delilghted with the taste of our food.
Go up to McCabe’s to hear a folk-ie singer-songwriter-entertainer – Kristina Olsen. We both thought her songs were wonderful.
Next morning, we get up and walk/run down to 2nd in less than 30 minutes to go to Ceregem.
Walk to lunch on the pier at Marisol.
Stroll around awhile and then catch the next show of ‘Once’ which I liked even Better the second time.
Bus back.

Drive down to OC…and now I’m home. I’ll have to do some extended resting-up from all this fun!

Cali May! Travis…

June 7

Cali May! Travis and Lainee sent these pictures (I ‘collaged’ them) of Cali and the tree they planted in Mom’s honor. Isn’t that Great?! It’s a Granny Smith(!!). How dang cool is That?!

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At dinner tonight Alicia…

June 4

At dinner tonight Alicia made the signature dessert from Commander’s Palace in New Orleans, and what a lot of work! First, you bake the bread… It was fab – and took me into a reverie of New Orleans.

I stayed one time for a week or so with Les Perelman when he was teaching at Tulane, and also I went to a few computer conferences there over the years. It’s time to go again!

These pictures are off the internet. The big one is of Commander’s Palace closed after Katrina, and the inset is the back patio, which was the best place to eat if it wasn’t too hot (and oh lordy does it get Hot!).

Here are a couple…

Here are a couple more from yesterday. Darryl and Rome, Rome organizing the sweetener bowl…

…and it was wonderful…

…and it was wonderful as always. Way to go Sandy!

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Earlier, Nancy, Marsha, and I went to see ‘Once’ and it was lovely but you better like the music because it was music music music all the way through with many performances of entire songs. Lovely though – romantic and tender and poignant.

Here is something I copied from Wikipedia: ”Once’ is a 2006 Irish film written and directed by John Carney, who has referred to it as a “video album.” This drama stars Irish musician Glen Hansard of the popular Irish rock band The Frames, along with Czech musician Markéta Irglová. ‘Once’ has received awards and enthusiastic reviews, and has been described as a musical for the modern age.

‘Hansard and Irglová were musical collaborators prior to making the film and released an album entitled The Swell Season in 2006. All the original songs in the movie were written by the two performers. The soundtrack album was released in Ireland on May 26 and it reached #20 in the Album Charts.’

Up at the Pacific…

June 3

Up at the Pacific Palisades Sunday Farmer’s Market DA&K met up with Rome’s friend Nora and Nora’s family – Mommy Katie, Daddy Jed, and Grandma Anna.

I made then stand there because that wall of the restaurant we were waaaiting in demanded a photo be taken in front of it.

Rome with a snack…

June 2

Rome with a snack and xo waiting for his turn. You can hear his little brain churning: DropIt-DropIt-DropIt…

Back from Kansas City…

June 1

Back from Kansas City I was just reading and napping and reading.

I read in National Geographic that each year sharks bite fewer people than New Yorkers do. I’ll take the New Yorker.

(Nat Geo pic)

It’s Stefanie and Rome…

May 21

It’s Stefanie and Rome at Speech where Rome is getting a little boost in her intelligible vocalization skills…

…like Shooooes (her absolute…

…like Shooooes (her absolute favorite), Buuuubblllles, FloWer, Boy In Bus, aWayyy (when we put our toys aWayyy), Hi Granny! (my favorite of course).

Last Monday Max had…

Last Monday Max had Marsha’s birthday and tonight Marsha had Max’s. Hence the hats. We haven’t been able to manage a composed photo with all the heads being somewhat the same size because we don’t have Time because we have to Watch TV.

It could be a whole lot worse for me. What if we had to watch about the bachelor or the island or something. At least this one is about Dancing.

‘Ah! Granny’s got…

May 20

‘Ah! Granny’s got her camera out! Uhh Ohhh, dropped the lid to my grape tureen…’ Rome especially enjoys eating snacks from her new full-service tea set.

Note the total change in grocery cart requirements in just three days. Now Dora (in her Easter Bunny ears and her Easter Bunny shoes) takes her seat in the place of honor and other items are moved about as needed. Who knows what next week will bring?

This afternoon I enjoyed…

May 19

This afternoon I enjoyed a lovely Ladies Lunch at the Hamlet Garden in Westwood. We were me, Nancy A, Nancy D, Sharon, and Sandy. This place offers the quintessential Ladies Lunch – tastefully stylish decor, great bread, many expensive salads, and a full bar.

Then Nancy A, Sharon, and I walked up to the UCLA sculpture garden for jacaranda season. The trees could have been fuller but the outing was excellent – excellent weather, excellent length, excellent company. We heart LA.

What I’ve been up…

May 18

What I’ve been up to. Walking, and messing about with websites. I also worked on Japanese and had a class, went out socializing, filed all the papers for the NZ insurance (and to the airlines and car company), did an ad for l&h, fished around in the internet for Kansas City activities… and I have been a faithful watcher of my food consumption for 3 weeks and I have Not lost 3 pounds as the computer said I should have. I do rather want to reach 60 at a weight less than my All Time High, but obviously I don’t want to enough.

‘Oh NONONO, Mommy, you…

‘Oh NONONO, Mommy, you Touched My Stuff. There, I fixed it. Mommy, would you pleeease, Don’t Touch My Stuff.’

Angela is trying hard to erase from her brain the growing vision of Rome with all her possessions stored in a grocery cart.

Monday Night at Maxine’s…

May 14

Monday Night at Maxine’s in celebration of Marsha’s birthday. She brought us all gifts and Ya-Ya hats for the birthday girl and for the hostess. Maxine gave us crowns.

She would have had a perfectly happy and satisfying birthday were it not for Dancing With The Stars, the obsession of the women of this group no one of whom (of the people who have tvs of course) has missed a single moment. Here we are gathered around to watch.

‘But I got a…

‘But I got a fabulous new Grocery Cart from my Grammy and Grandpa Gary and I’m Happy. Oh! Look up everyone, look at Granny, she’s got her camera out!’

What a Feast.

A few tunes, and…

A few tunes, and a grand time was had by all. I should mention that for me and my sisters it was our first Mother’s Day without our mother. The march of time, the circle of life, and all that.

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You are going to…

May 12

You are going to want to see this, big time.

The Dan Flavin retrospective (previewed today) will be showing until August 12 at LACMA. When you go, do follow instructions and begin where they tell you to, then see all the rooms in relative chronological order.

The internet is full of intellectual analysis of this stuff but it is also a joyful, physical experience, the sounds of the awwwing, cooing crowd and their amazed faces, wow, and not a word about ‘but is it art.’

Don’t miss the red room; it’s easy to pass by. It made me gasp, like that time I backed into a gallery, chatting away, turned, and came face to face with Guernica, and that made me gasp too.

(separate photos from the internet)

Last weekend I went…

May 11

Last weekend I went out to Boban and Jo’s place in Newhall to admire the under-construction Palace they are building in their front yard. They’ll rent the old house when they move in here. Also included in the Palace is a two bedroom apartment that they’ll rent. And there’s still room for the horse yet to come.

The place is further along than these pictures – Boban sent them a few months ago. The wiring is done and the Palace includes all the electronic googaws Boban could get Jo to accept.

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We are near done…

May 10

We are near done cleaning up and distributing Mom’s things and in that effort L&H are attempting to make room for some of these very things. So after much thrashing and gnashing of teeth, they’ve decided to throw out their collection of Trevor’s old shoes. Yes, they kept every pair of Trevor’s old shoes. Now try to imagine what else they keep.

I finished the first…

May 6

I finished the first pass of my New Zealand pictures and story. Click here for the Whole thing!

You can also click on the NEW ZEALAND link over in the far left column.

Don’t miss the penguins toward the end of chapter two. I was 2 weeks into a 6 week trip and I’m already hoping to go back next year in April to see more More. The scenery is just simply fantastic. The people are good too, and so is the food. And the roads, and it’s not too expensive. Wow.

This is a poster…

May 5

This is a poster Windy made up for the funeral, with my encouragement and contribution being ‘More, more, we need More Stuff!’ It’s going to be Mother’s Day next week and Darryl and Angela have invited us all over. Isn’t that the sweetest thing.

This was the last…

May 4

This was the last shot from my last night in New Zealand. Thinking everything was ready, the following morning I got up at dawn and spent the next 2 days getting home, because, no, it was not all ready.

I do want to finish that trip some day! First I’ll finish the pix and stories from the 12 days I was there. A project for tomorrow.

Hangin’ out…

May 2

Hangin’ out with Rome, one set of photos looking into the windows and one set on the opposite wall. I’m going to just let the colors be.

Rome, tuning her daddy’s guitar.

This is the reception-lobby…

This is the reception-lobby at the Getty Center and here we are listening to this musical art project…

Travis, Windy, Christa, Cali, Lainee

More from the day…

More from the day at Jamaica Bay Inn. From the top: Trevor and Beth; Rupa, Caleb, Hartley, Charis, Bharati; Lona, Christa

Betsy and Anya listening…

Betsy and Anya listening carefully as that collection of bladders, clothes drier vents, and tp rolls bleats out an engaging tune.

A clip of Lainee…

A clip of Lainee from a much bigger picture where she looked too good to pass up. Maybe I’ll change my mind because the focus is so ‘soft.’ We’ll see.

Rupa and her Auntie…

Rupa and her Auntie Bharati. When I visited Rupa in India we spent a couple nights at Bharati’s brother’s place in Bombay.

Amit (aka by my…

Amit (aka by my mother – Amito…Mom’s firstborn Indian grandchild) and his mom Bharati. Mom would have loved that Amit made it here from Canada to be one of her pall bearers. Too bad he couldn’t stay for the days of festivities that followed but we got Bharati for a while longer and that was great.

Each one explaining to…

Each one explaining to the younger ones how They used to play with this very same toy.

Christa, Cynthia, Travis, Cali, Charis

Here come some shots…

Here come some shots from the funeral day. Family members making their way to the church.

Trevor and Lucas gave eulogy-mini-sermons and the Pastor gave a long fundamentalist/evangelical (too bad for you if you’re going to hell)-maxi-sermon. There were also singers, congregational singing, bible reading, and prayers. Mom would have loved it.

My little sister Windy,…

My little sister Windy, her two grown boys Lucas and Travis, her dearly loved, gorgeous, and kind daughters-in-law Betsy and Lainee…and Grandbabies! Xander, Anya, and Cali May.

Rome gazes at big…

Rome gazes at big cousin Cali May. ‘Wow, so cute and capable…can I play…I can color too!’ with Lainee looking on.

Then came the reception…

Then came the reception with so much food it took a whole big room to hold it. There were tables and chairs and a microphone and speaker’s stand in another room where people took turns for a couple hours telling stories of Mom, themselves, and Jesus. Mom would have loved it.

Then we went to…

Then we went to Forest Lawn. The next four pictures are Angela’s.

The pall bearers – Darryl, Trevor, Amit, Lucas, Hartley, Travis.

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This is going to…

This is going to be entirely random until the end of the month. That’s what I decided since I’ve got all sorts of pictures. And I’ve never finished the story and pictures from New Zealand, which I want to finish by the end of the month. Also Angela took some shots at the funeral and we’ve had many nice outings with the fam.

Now, random family pictures until the end of the month!

At the Getty. Lucas, Xander, Trevor, Windy, Charis, Janice, Betsy, Anya, Travis, Lainee, Caleb, Beth, and Christa.

Now adding the spice!…

Now adding the spice!

Bottom row: Angela, Travis. Middle row: Darryl, Rome, Cali May, Lainee, Trevor, Cynthia, Lucas, Xander, Anya, Betsy. Top row: Charis, Caleb, Christa, Beth

All my mother’s blood-born…

All my mother’s blood-born grandchildren (although there are legions who call her Gran’ma) here for her funeral, gathered from:

Hawaii-Trevor, Lona’s son
Sherman Oaks-Darryl, my son
The OC-Cynthia, my daughter
Germany-Lucas, Windy’s son
Texas-Travis, Windy’s son

which is probably why the last group photo is from 1993!

Cousins…

…and kids of the…

…and kids of the cousins: Cali May (Travis and Lainee), Xander (Lucas and Betsy), Anya (Lucas and Betsy), Charis (Trevor and Beth), Caleb (Trevor and Beth), Rome (Darryl and Angela), and Christa (Trevor and Beth).

Let’s ask wikipedia, shall…

Let’s ask wikipedia, shall we?!

“A system of degrees and removes is used to describe the relationship between …two cousins and the ancestor they have in common. The degree (first, second, third cousin, etc.) indicates the minimum number of generations separating either of the cousins from the common ancestor; the remove (once removed, twice removed, etc.) indicates the number of generations, if any, separating the two cousins from each other.

“…To work out if two people are first, second, or third cousins, count back the generations to their common ancestor. For example, if the common ancestor is one’s grandmother, that is two generations. If it is one’s great-grandmother, that is three generations.

“Identify the one of the two descendants who is generationally closest to the common ancestor. For example, if one of the cousins is a great-great-grandchild (four generations) and the other is a grandchild, the grandchild is generationally closest to the common ancestor.

“If the generationally closest descendant of the common ancestor is a grandchild (two generations), then the cousins are first cousins; if three generations separate the common ancestor and the generationally closest cousin, then the two are second cousins, and so on.

“If the cousins are separated from the common ancestor by an equal number of generations, there is no “remove,” for instance if both are grandchildren of the common ancestor.

“But if the number of generations between the common ancestor is different for each cousin, that difference is expressed by using a clarifier, “removed,” with the number of removes. For example, if one person is a grandchild of (2 generations from) the common ancestor, and the other person is a great-great-grandchild of (4 generations from) that common ancestor, then the two are first-cousins-twice-removed.”

Breakfast at Jamaica Bay…

Breakfast at Jamaica Bay Inn the day after the funeral. The waiter took this miraculous photo with Angela’s camera.

From New Zealand I came straight to my mother’s and I haven’t been home yet except to get some clothes. I haven’t picked up the mail and I haven’t listened to my voice messages. I should get to that by Tue-Wed!

From the lower left on around: Trevor, Rupa, Bharati, Charis, Anya, Betsy, Travis, Lainee, Mike, Hartley, Beth, Rome, me, Lona, Caleb, Riki, Xander, Lucas, Windy, Cali May, Janice, Christa, Cynthia, Darryl, and Angela.

I took Lucas shopping…

I took Lucas shopping to get a suit for the funeral and amused myself at the mirrors. I’ll bet we could come up with some excellent symbolism for this photo in respect of the next day’s funeral of ones mother.

This is fun -…

This is fun – my mother, her parents, and brother, back in the way olden days…just a few years off the boat.

The funeral is tomorrow, Saturday, at 10AM at Grace Community Church in the SF Valley, 11-ish for the luncheon reception also at the church, and then 3:30 for the grave site at Forest Lawn Hollywood Hills, on Forest Lawn Drive.

My mom has passed…

April 17

My mom has passed and we sisters are in the throws of preparations for the Saturday funeral. And, as my little sister said recently ‘oh nooo, we’re Orphans.’

You can click here for MelicentHunt.com where we have a website set-up to gather memories from her many friends and family members.

You can read what others have written and send us your own best story and a photo of her or your story if you have something you’d like to share. Then you can check back from time to time as the story of her life unfolds in the memories of those who loved her.

I left New Zealand…

April 14

I left New Zealand early and am back now. Mom took a sharp left turn for the worse and the hospice nurses say she is in the last stages of life. She is home with a full-time nurse and a caregiver. Although Mom is not communicating at all, not even opening her eyes, they are keeping her looking comfortable and peaceful.

Fun! Thanks Brigitte…

March 17

Fun! Thanks Brigitte and Knut for having us over for a visit and feeding us too. We did have fun sharking a bit o’ the blarney here on Saint Patrick’s day.

Between days in court…

March 16

Between days in court (for L&H-they won!) and days doing up photos and ads (for 4(!) L&H vacancies) and stopping by at Mom’s a few times, I’ve been Family-Busy!

Which I’m very glad for, since I’ll be gonegone very soon.

The wisteria is kicking…

The wisteria is kicking in. The construction has kicked in again too. Perfect timing for me to leave! Here’s a shot from March 2005, two years ago.

Dang, why did I let the tenant put in that black screen door? It looked ‘right’ without a screen door at all but even if it was white it would be way better. But her checks never fail to clear on the exact day rent is due. Hurray!

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