Daily Life 2010
Happy New Year! at…
December 31
Happy New Year! at Marsha and Tom’s annual New Year’s Eve party. The New Year’s Eve party that they have to have because everyone is going to show up at their house anyway expecting to find Tom’s chili and ham sandwiches and champagne. Happy New Year!
Rome took this picture…
Rome took this picture of her mom and dad in November. I’m putting it here in honor of Darryl and Angela’s 6th Wedding Anniversary. Hurray!! Lucky ME!!!
I watched the kids while D&A went out on the town. .busy, no photos. But we had Fun TOO!
Rome.
Yes, it is LA…
December 30
Yes, it is LA from this very day. I saw it.
(I snagged the photo from the LA Times…they must have had one guy driving down the 10 and another guy standing in the back of a flat bed truck, or a helicopter hovering over the freeway…)
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Susie and I had…
December 29
Susie and I had a very enjoyable day today. First we went to the Skirball to see the Maira Kalman show, Susie for the first time and I for the second. On second viewing it was as delightful as the first. We looked over Kalman’s books too – they are so wonderful.
No cameras allowed in the exhibit so I just clicked one off with my PHONE. Hardly counts.
Then we had lunch at Tender Greens, a drive by of the Eric Owen Moss neighborhood in Culver City, a few minutes at Bergamot Station including a visit to Hiromi Paper, and Bye! until next time!
I had a colonoscopy…
December 28
I had a colonoscopy today. I was going to show you the pictures I got of my own colon, but I’m not going to do that.
You’re welcome.
Click here for more…
December 26
Click here for more of me, Roger, Sandy, and Nancy enjoying a quick trip out to Joshua Tree National Park! and at the same time scroll on down in there for a few other visits to Joshua Tree.
And after a grand…
And after a grand Christmas Day at D&A’s I joined up with Nancy to drive to Joshua Tree where we are to meet Roger and Sandy for a couple days of desert fun.
Shots out the car window.
Cynthia managed to acquire…
December 25
Cynthia managed to acquire for Darryl and Angela a treasured one-of-a-kind item created and crafted by the founder and one-of-a-kind guiding light of the regretsy website and once across-the-way neighbor, April Winchell. Here’s what April, pictured on the left modeling her creation, has to say about it. You may note what Lilly has to say about it by her expression.
“I may have missed my calling. Clearly I’m not meant to be a writer; I can barely read. No, I was meant to be … a milliner.
If by “milliner”, we mean someone who hot glues **** to hats. And we do mean that, because this is Etsy we’re talking about, where anyone with 20¢ and a glue gun can be the next Lilly Daché. If by “Lilly Dache” we mean no talent.
. . .here’s . .my latest ****box, which is perfect for your New Year’s Eve look. Yes, it’s a big silver holiday mess, piled with fake snow, silver and white glittered poinsettias, and a deranged googly-eyed dove right in the front.
. . .Everything is sewn on with fishing line, so you can get falling down drunk and still look like an idiot. And here’s the best part – IT LIGHTS UP. Yes, a handy battery pack is hidden inside the hat, powering a string of bright white LED lights buried under the fake snow. The whole thing glows with glamour!”
Marija and Brian’s Christmas…
December 24
Marija and Brian’s Christmas Eve Extravaganza! Hundreds of guests showed up this year with plenty of food and drink and good cheer for all, and the sing-along was particularly lively this year.
Brian, son Andrew, Marija, son-in-law Steve. Daughter Melinda and grandson(!!) Alex where in another room. Son Christopher is with the Peace Corps in Morocco.
Finally FINALLY, the sky…
December 23
Finally FINALLY, the sky has cleared and the sun is back in his rightful place overhead. In celebration Muriel and I went for a long awaited walk. It was Lovely!
Kathleen across the street…
December 22
Kathleen across the street had a festive Holiday Dinner at her lovely home (just across the street and way bigger than mine, but whose isn’t).
What lively folk! I had a wonderful time. Let me say that of these guest three of us were not in the Real Estate biz. Interesting! And Real Estate people like to travel which is not obvious, but in this case true nonetheless.
sitting: Shameem, Larry. standing: Mimi, Jon, Kathleen, Peter, Nora, James, Marsha, Emily, J Tucker
Rome and I made…
December 21
Rome and I made this today, for Rome’s Holiday Card. I got the pictures printed, then she glued them to paper and drew designs and ‘I love you’ and her name. That was fun!
. We are…
December 20
I stole it from Life Magazine. But it could have been mine… Rain RAIN RAIN. We are all getting very dang tired of the rain. This is LA. It’s always nice in LA. When this happens we forget about it as soon as it stops and go right back to saying ‘it never rains in Southern California!’.
Today was Sister Day doing landlord chores for my big sister and taking my little sister to the doctor, then I did a little shopping at three different stores in three different neighborhoods. .In The Rain.
Yesterday I saw The Fighter, getting tuned up for the Acadamy Awards. It was good except for all that hitting. But I knew that. It’s called The Fighter and not for nothing.
What a good afternoon…
December 18
What a good afternoon for a rainy day. Windy, Nancy, and I went to the all you can eat Indian Buffet and then walked across the street to see The King’s Speech. We all liked the movie. I cried at the end, of course no surprise there.
Nancy brought Windy and me both a Pumpkin Bread just like the loaf she sent to the President last year, of which I have already enjoyed a big honkin’ slab. YUM!
Oh those smart phones are So dang smart. Besides for all the everthing that we already know I have with me at all times, inside my phone (you can get at it even in airplane mode), several novels from Amazon/Kindle, 10,000 sudoku, and 5,000 crosswords, never having to find myself at a loss for distractions.
We’re passing around the…
We’re passing around the Birthday Tiara – first Nancy, now Sharon, next me!
Happy Birthday Sharon! …
December 16
Happy Birthday Sharon! This is Sharon’s actual birthday day, not the day we all went to be regaled by Andrea Bocelli, this party being not at all so grand but totally deeelightful nonetheless.
We had Lunch, Orchids, then Dessert and Coffee at Gladstone’s. What a lovely day.
Brigitte and Rosie and…
December 15
Brigitte and Rosie and I took advantage of the ’20th Anniversary 20 Free Days’ at the Hammer Museum. The Eva Hesse show was interesting but for me not something to run out for. There were several rooms of Mark Manders odd odd sculptural work, and some greatest hits from the permanent collection. My favorite pieces were in a collection of contemporary works from the permanent collection.
Then we ate!
The Monday Nighters, My…
December 13
The Monday Nighters, My Valley Girls! We had a particularly fantastic Christmas Party this year, full of great good cheer and good will all around. Many thanks go out to our Head Chef and gracious hostess Alicia.
We always draw names for a gift exchange and then everyone brings ‘a little something’ for everyone else. It’s a regular Niagara of gifts!
We got: holiday oven mitts and a toast tong, a whole bag of goodies, a cozy shawl, a Santa sock with a candy cane and two movie tickets, a donated cow(!) and homemade peanut brittle, fuzzy slippers, lottery tickets, handmade soap, a big jar of cashews, and protection amulets from the big three. What fun!
me, Alicia, Maxine, Marsha, Maryanne, Becky, Lourdes, Ljubica, Ann, Marija.
Knut and Brigitte’s Annual…
December 11
Knut and Brigitte’s Annual Holiday Slipper Party!
Tony Hana Adolfo and Miriam Rana Toni
Look where Cynthia is…
December 12
Look where Cynthia is now, oh yeah, Minneapolis/St Paul. .the Twin Cities: Snow Storm Central! That’s Kieran sledding, Mike shoveling, Cynthia photographing.
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It looks as if…
It looks as if they were having a kick of a time with all that snow! Then the three of them made a graham cracker Holiday Village. What holiday FUN, and talk about a White Christmas! Wow-eee.
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Annual parties are a…
Annual parties are a blessing for the guests as they know that every year at least once they’ll get to touch base with the regular invitees. Annual parties can also turn into a burden for the hosts, since they have to do it, but we guests say, yes, that’s true and right, you have to.
Tai Nancy Brigitte Knut Jeff…Jacqueline Inga-Lill Ed Sharon
Happy Birthday Sharon! …
December 10
Happy Birthday Sharon! We are at a birthday festivity arranged by Sharon’s son who, being out of town, couldn’t go himself…
The two on the…
The two on the left did a gorgeous set from Madame Butterfly to close the first act.
The program didn’t credit any of the other performers or the orchestra or the chorus so I don’t know their names yet. Until I can get more details (the opera singer, a violin soloist, an r&b star) I’ll just say again, we loved it.
I should mention there were four encores and they made it through all the Andrea Bocelli’s Greatest Hits that I knew anyway. What a treat!
…to hear Andrea Bocelli…
…to hear Andrea Bocelli in concert, with a full orchestra and a huge chorus. We all loved it!
My neighbor Kathleen from…
December 9
My neighbor Kathleen from across the street and I spent a lovely evening in Our Town. Kathleen’s assistant dropped us at the beach, we walked, we took the bus, we were out and about.
Festive holiday dinner with…
Festive holiday dinner with the guys. The place wasn’t decorated though, so I added some Christmas flavor. Joy-Peace-Love.
Bill and Ken
Brigitte is back from…
December 5
Brigitte is back from her travels but Knut is now gone for a few days so she fixed us a yummy dinner and we got to enjoy a nice evening visit.
This is what their house looks like right now, in all its winter glory.
Brigitte took the photo.
I went with Muriel…
December 3
I went with Muriel today to the Skirball to see the Maira Kalman show. It was wonderful. If you’ve ever had any affection for Maira Kalman you won’t want to miss this opportunity to see such a fine collection in person.
If you go to the Skirball of course you have to take a swing through Noah’s Ark.
One of the wall…
One of the wall coverings.
Recently I’ve been obsessed with reading the travel forums on the African countries I’m planning to visit next year. I’m hours and hours into it already and I can tell, many many more hours to come.
Then since we were…
Then since we were right up the street we decided to stop at the Getty for a quick hello.
Goodie! At first I didn’t like this guy and complained about his odd presence in the garden. But then all in good time I became attached to him and then I liked him and then he was gone. Where did he go? Here! They moved him off into the academic area. It was fun to spot him in this photo.
Shaon and I enjoyed…
December 2
Shaon and I enjoyed a stroll from her house down to a view spot at the cliffs.
We wandered through the…
We wandered through the Water Court, the MOCA grounds, and the Music Center complex.
At the last minute…
December 1, evening
At the last minute we remembered, hey! it’s the first night of Hanukkah! Ben! get the menorah!
And Ben and Bonnie know the songs for real. Thanks guys, that was extra fun.
Liz and I, you…
December 1, afternoon
Liz and I, you can see us in the garden ball, enjoyed a delightful afternoon of Downtown LA. We love LA!
This is a scene from the Cathedral sculpture garden.
Let’s hear it for…
Let’s hear it for the Bank of America. I forgot my entire wallet arriving downtown with not a red cent, not a credit card, no ID, nada, except a wrinkled up old copy of my passport folded away in a half-hidden pocket of my backpack.
I went into the BofA here and four minutes later walked out with a hundred bucks. Good one.
We rode Angel’s Flight…
We rode Angel’s Flight down to the Central Market and had fanTASTic carnitas tacos here. What a treat.
Goodness, I might have…
Goodness, I might have never been here before. It’s not obvious how to get in but if you’re in the Disney Concert Hall area ask around, don’t miss it!
Lilly loves to pace…
November 30
Lilly loves to pace around the house back and forth around and around talking on the phone. She always positions the phone just right on her ear and chatters away. TOO cute.
From the Adamson House…
From the Adamson House at the Malibu pier. You have to make reservations to see the inside but you are free to stoll around the grounds. Some of the historic Malibu Tile promonent here.
…and sea birds! …
…and sea birds! Small, medium, and large.
I need more practice with wildlife in preparation for my trip to Africa in summer. And I’m lusting over a new camera with better low light handling. Yup, Africa. I am reeeally getting excited.
I should practice naming as much as possible too. Nancy got the little guys: “The small peeping bird is indeed a sandpiper. If my investigation is correct it is a Sanderling which is form of sandpiper. There are about 50 different types of sandpipers unfortunately (or fortunately). I identified the bird as a sanderling because of its behavior running at the edge of the water and also its size and coloration. I would not swear to this however.”
This is near the…
This is near the Malibu pier where parking is easy and there are always plenty of birds to enjoy.
Sandy collected a handful of perfect little shells. Sandy, who can find treasures on a barren beach.
Nancy and I had…
November 29
Nancy and I had a last chance outing with Sandy before her return to San Francisco. Ahh, the sea…
Welcome to town Sandy!…
November 27
Welcome to town Sandy! We went with Nancy to a movie and a lingering chat-filled afternoon at the Persian restaurant. Then Nancy took Sandy back to her house and they will be having a slumber party for the next couple nights. What fun!
(Why is the picture fuzzy? Grrr.)
Steve and Celina invited…
November 26
Steve and Celina invited me for a left-over Thanksgiving lunch (or did I invite myself?). It was fab of course. Celina has always had The Touch, and now she’s in Culinary School. YUM!
This is an apple pie of her own design: dEElish.
A Thanksgiving turn around…
November 25
A Thanksgiving turn around the block on this bright and beautiful day.
Angela, Rome, Lilly, and…
Angela, Rome, Lilly, and next door friend Jack, enjoying.
(Our menu, for future reference: acorn squash with cornbread stuffing, mashed potatoes, spinach and cheese quiche, broccoli casserole, baked carrots, baked beets, endive and apple salad, pumpkin pie.)
(The gap from the 22nd to the 25th was me putting drops in my eye from the cataract surgery that went just fine.)
Hilda and Jake in…
November 22
Hilda and Jake in Merlyn’s office. When Merlyn retired Hilda moved her office into another much smaller room and now Merlyn has this whole giant space to ‘spread out’.
I went with Hana…
November 21
I went with Hana today to my new favorite local restaurant. It’s The Dining Room at the newly remodeled Shangri-La hotel on Ocean near Wilshire – tasty food, comfy decor, and a great location.
Here are the first…
November 20
Here are the first two movies I’ve seen in months, starting the countdown to Oscar Season. These were both very good movies but I really hope I see a better one, that one of these is not the best movie of the year.
127 Hours: tense, scenic, well done, minutes on end of hands pressed against face and ears.
The Social Network: a lively tale of our times told by Aaron Sorkin so you know we’re talking lots of (bambambam) words.
My new favorite seat,…
My new favorite seat, worth booking early, the row behind the row behind the walkway between the tiers of seats. Feet Up. .Oh YES!
We ate a delicious Indian buffet for lunch and then enjoyed the show. What a great afternoon!
That’s right, Merlyn is…
November 19
That’s right, Merlyn is Retired, and we had a lovely, leisurely, delicious, Peruvian lunch in celebration. Merlyn is going to have to retire this photo too.
(resume picture)
Last visit before cataract…
November 18
Last visit before cataract surgery on Tuesday then a couple weeks later I get to do this whole exam again for glasses. I’m SO excited to be done fussing around with my eyes!
This work by Richard…
November 17
This work by Richard Deacon, North Tree and Rock, is at the LA Louver gallery, just off the Venice boardwalk on Venice Blvd.. It’s free to visit here so stop on by next time you’re walking at the beach.
I met Brigitte at…
I met Brigitte at the LA Louver and then we enjoyed a nice cuppa tea and a chin wag at James Beach Restaurant across the street. Lovely.
Speaking of which, this…
Speaking of which, this is what Rome gave me as a Welcome Home card last week. Awww!
I got the appointment…
November 15
I got the appointment for my second cataract surgery – November 23rd. Then I’ll get new glasses, and then I’ll know what the world is going to look like for the next many years.
When I had the first surgery they just kept pumping up the drugs because I just kept laughing over the psych-o-DELIC views I was being treated to as they sliced open my eye. The last thing I heard before it all went dark was the doctor whisper to the anesthesiologist ‘make her stop…’.
Ben and Bonnie in…
November 13
Ben and Bonnie in their back garden lounge chairs and the view from those very same chairs. Nice!
Bill and I went…
November 10
Bill and I went to dinner at the newly reopened Shangri-La. They have a fantastic Happy Hour, a stylish dining room, and a rooftop bar. I’ll be back!
It’s Home Sweeet Home…
November 9
It’s Home Sweeet Home now and I plan to be around at least through the end of the year.
First things first: see Rome and Lilly!
If you’re interested in…
If you’re interested in a re-run of any parts of this last trip:
Seattle and Vancouver Island with Sharon at The Jewel Box. Florida with Ken in Fort Myers for Kim’s wedding and then with Leigh and her mom in Mount Dora. New Orleans with a Couch Surfing host. Colonial Virginia with Alex and Carol aboard Nepenthe. Washington DC with Paul and Gretchen, a quick visit with Dan and Shelly, a week at Kyle’s, and Jon and Stephen of course.
A shot of myself…
A shot of myself at GaGaVille, the American Visionary Art Museum.
What they say: “The essential difference between (visionary art and folk art), though both may at times use similar materials and methods, is that visionary artists don’t listen to anyone else’s traditions. They invent their own.”
It’s really wild in there!
Lilly and her Granny…
October 12
Lilly and her Granny building a tall tall tower. A Taaaall Tower. That’s so fun to say. Here I am with Rome! building a Tall Tower!
Rome was making a…
Rome was making a play with her Woody and Jessie dolls and then I took a video with my new make-anything-but-toast cellphone.
My mother would have…
October 10
My mother would have had such a great day today. She would have written cards and letters for no other reason than the joy of using 10-10-10. She would have talked about it non-stop. Oh yeah, she would’a loved it.
Out on a walk with Sharon I am reminded again how I’m going to miss being home for one of my favorite holidays. No Halloween with my grandbabies! Oh Bummer!
Kitteh loooves his daddy….
October 9
Kitteh loooves his daddy. Tom cannot sit down without the instant appearance of Simon demanding his perch. Thanks for the perfect dinner guys.
Oh goodie. .a tour…
October 7
Oh goodie. .a tour in the US of A! I’ve been working on my arrangements, kicking off in one short week:
to Fort Myers (for a wedding)
then New Orleans (haven’t been since Katrina and waiting for the next weekend)
then Mt Dora (to see an old friend who is only available on the weekend)
then Chesapeake Bay (to sail around a few days with my pals who live on their boat)
then Washington DC (because I was going to be so close anyway, and then come to find out the timing overlaps with the Jon Stewart/Stephen Colbert event)
then LA Home Sweet Home.
Plenty of good eats…
October 6
Plenty of good eats today. Boban treated me to a big delicious birthday lunch; thanks Boban. At least twice a year we get to see each other for our birthday lunches, the timing for which is entirely flexible.
And then I went out to dinner with Bonnie at a down home Greek place at Normandy and Pico across the street from this sign…
There was a lot…
There was a lot of q&a, the q from the crowd of mostly USC students. I’ll tell ya, those two Chopras are a talkative pair and capable of extended riffs on any topic whatsoEver.
moderator, Deepak, Gotham
Happy Birthday Lourdes! …
October 4
Happy Birthday Lourdes! Our youngest Monday Nighter is Fifty-mmmm.
I am trying to…
October 5
I am trying to buy a dress to wear to this wedding in Florida on the beach. All day, Failure.
before heading out…
September 21-22 before heading out to Seattle…
…and here where you can click for a view of 10 days in the coolness of Seattle and Vancouver Island.
I had to keep…
I had to keep them both because of the tooo adorable smiley face, reachy hand, and the pointy toe.
Twelve days later, when I got back from Seattle she was taking many consecutive steps on her own. Yesterday she walked towards me for 7 steps, sat down, stood up from her sitting down, and walked on for several more steps. Pretty soon she’ll be preping for her sat!
Rome got to choose…
Rome got to choose her favorite restaurant for her birthday dinner. She rode her big girl birthday bike over there. Happy Birthday sweetie!
My little niece Erica,…
September 18
My little niece Erica, dubbed RikiTik by my mother, and Mike, her husband of something like 30 years. I know, she hardly looks 30 years old.
They were down south in San Diego visiting family, from up north in the Bay Area where they live, and stopped by LA for a deeelightful afternoon and evening. We walked, we ate, we chatted for hours. Thank you for making the time!
Ten days early I…
Ten days early I got my first very own cell phone. That’s right, my very own, and I went with the Big Boys, a Droid X and a thing of beauty it is.
(I’ve just got back from Las Vegas (photos coming tomorrow) and have been reading, soo easily, War Of The Worlds on-my-phone! If you remember anything about War Of The Worlds you will see the amusing symmetry of reading WotW on my (now say it like the phone does) ~Droid~.)
Susie and I had…
September 17
Susie and I had a cool tour of the California State University at Long Beach today. It was interesting and entertaining as well.
This is at the Earl Burns Miller Japanese Garden, a modest yet perfectly lovely Japanese garden with all the elements one expects – water features, raked garden, shaped trees, koi pond, bridges and paths, small tea house, very nice indeed. Anyone on campus is welcome to wander through.
This is a huge…
This is a huge pyramid that you can see from all around campus, a “5,000-seat, indoor multi-purpose stadium.”
wiki: “Each side of the perimeter of Walter Pyramid measures 345 feet (105 m), making it a mathematically true pyramid. It is one of only three true pyramid-style buildings in the United States, the others being Luxor in Las Vegas and Pyramid Arena in Memphis. Walter Pyramid rises 18 stories above the Long Beach skyline and its exterior is uniformly clad in sheets of dark-blue corrugated aluminum.”
It also has the “largest hydraulic operated stadium seating in the world.”
We ate a delicious…
We ate a delicious Happy Birthday Susie lunch at a Thai place across from the campus, and then we went back to look at the exhibit at the University Art Museum.
The exhibit was a retrospective of Michael Goldberg’s work. Neither of us had heard of Michael Goldberg (1924-2007) and except for three small pieces, we weren’t too hot for his work either. They change exhibits about once per quarter and it’s worth it to stop by.
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