Zowie, From Before

Richard and Emilia were…

Richard and Emilia were having a birthday party for Jesse, Annalee and Emilia’s daughter Vanessa. This is Annalee and Jesse and Jesse’s girlfriend. And I remember Jesse and Annalee when they were teeny-tiny babies. And now look, so handsome, so grown-up. I only said that maybe four or five times.

What a pity! I don’t have any pictures of Vanessa and the rest of Emilia’s grown-up children, All of whom turned out to be adorable, warm and welcoming people. The guests were mostly native Spanish speakers and from one couple I got the whole low-down for my trip to Mexico City. Ole!

Nancy and Paulette waiting…

Nancy and Paulette waiting in line on the second to the last day of the Warhol exhibit. Paulette pressed the importance of going. Nancy got tickets with her membership and I got to tag along. That’s good. It was a far better experience than my ‘Andy Warhol, who cares?’ expectations and a reminder – it just took a few hours and made an otherwise regular day an interesting and entertaining one. Omoshiroi.

Marsha traded in her…

Marsha traded in her red everything, having to change the entire decor of her mantel to make the appropriate space for this painting from her childhood. This is the picture she grew up with, her vision of her perfect mother and of the perfect woman she strives to be. Would that we could all be so genteel and modest and talented and beautiful.

While strolling around behind…

While strolling around behind the B&B this cat trotted along with me the whole way, not in that pant pant puppy kind of way but rather like a leopard who is escorting an honored guest through his landscape.

This scene was everywhere,…

This scene was everywhere, orange groves with orange trees full of rich bright orange oranges. Also there were pomegranate trees, persimmon trees, the soft kind and the hard kind and various crops we didn’t recognize. We said ‘bucolic’ more times than in our entire previous life.

Les and David, out…

Les and David, out for a week of visiting and Disney!land! Here we are on a stroll through Will Rodgers State Park up to Inspiration Point followed by lunch at El Cholo. Les allows as it was delicious, as good as ever. David agreed, yummy.

Tom decided to give…

Tom decided to give up that pansy-assed old pot he used to use. Three gallons was a small stupid silly amount of chili to make when you Could be making Five gallons.

And if you wanted leftovers you better get there early on New Years Day because there was practically Nothing left.

Some of the New…

Some of the New Year’s Eve early birds, from the top and around – Joanne, Dale, Nathan, Becky, Alysia, Alysia’s husband, Maryanne, Ann, Bill, Ann’s dad from N/S(?) Carolina.

I have only one teeeeeny little complaint about my camera. Just one and yet I’m about ready to think about the Next Step, which probably won’t solve the problem either but I want the Next Step anyway.

The problem is the flash – close-ups, faces, big crowds – it just doesn’t do the trick and I end up having to ‘process’ these pictures a lot. Not great stuff but in 40 years, when I’m pushing 100, I’m sure everyone here will find it fun to see just how darn cute we were.

more – Kelly, Tom,…

more – Kelly, Tom, Marsha, Mary, Nicki, Nicki’s boyfriend, Becky, Gail, Brian, Marija, Lubi, and Nathan. The picture was, for lack of light, actually a very few shades of black. Sorry guys, about those ‘interstingly’ colored faces.

And now on to…

And now on to Nancy’s annual New Year’s Eve and Birthday fete. Can I be more fortunate? Look what Else I got to eat! Dear Nancy’s dear, sweet, intellegent and engaging mom was here this year too, and that certainly made for an emotion packed evening.

Nancy’s pic. My camera would have produced a glaring hot spot in the foreground and the dishes towards the back of the table, well forget those richly colored olives and that beautiful ribbon of fat.

Me and Sandy’s huggle…

Me and Sandy’s huggle Snuggle angel girl, Sara. This Sandy I call ‘Nancy’s Sandy’ to be distinguished from the other Sandy who, when distinctions are required, I call ‘Roger’s Sandy’.

Check out those New Year’s Nails! Nancy’s pic.

We’re talking some serious…

We’re talking some serious palm groves here in Palm Springs.

After the kids left on Saturday afternoon Liz and I went to a movie, had a cocktail and ate a steak dinner, played video poker at the Spa Casino and all in all had a kickin’ good time.

The next morming we packed up and then went off for some desert air.

In the course of…

In the course of the few days in Palm Springs we learned a lot about the Native Americans here (Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla – pronounced Kaw-we-ah), like for example they are RicH. The Cahuilla attendant at one of the museums told Darryl that, yes, it is true, they are all rich. Yes, he said, they have lost their culture, which is sad, but they are rich.

They also never were so foolish as to stay in Palm Springs in the summer. In the summer they went up to where the tramway goes, where in the summer it is 110 on the valley floor and 75 up there.

Ten minutes outside Palm…

Ten minutes outside Palm Springs by car you can reach many wonderful trails thorough the desert. This weekend the weather was absolutely perfect. Cool! Calm! Clear!

It was so lovely. One thing that hadn’t reached my consciousness before was that unlike Anza Borrego where prickly bits are Everywhere and you really have to always Watch Your Step, here there were dried shrub but basically nothing jumped out to attack your shoes and pants.

Jeannie and Ken, happily…

Jeannie and Ken, happily ever after. They met, they married (internet daters, there is hope!), they each sold their house and ten months after they met, they are off to a Whole New Life. And Maxine again provides The party.

Lona holding the lamp…

Lona holding the lamp carved by Hartley himself as a lad, treasured by Lona and now preparations are underway to pass this heirloom on to Trevor’s family. Ahhh.

Marija and Brian at…

Marija and Brian at their annual Christmas Eve dinner party. All your good old friends and all the Rosie’s you can tamp down. You can start eating when you get there and if you pace yourself carefully you can maybe manage a whole cow.

Maybe this is how…

Maybe this is how we all feel after Thanksgiving dinner.

We all (M,L,H,D,A,L,me) hauled up our contributions to Palm Springs for a grandly unusual Thanksgiving outing in the desert. For some unfortunate, miserable reason (why? Why?? WHY???) I didn’t take one single decent picture of our lovely dinner and evening. I knew at some point I didn’t have a picture but since we were all going to the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway on Friday I figured we’d get something good out of that. But Mom, Lona and Hartley didn’t make it to the Tramway.

Why didn’t they make it? They didn’t make it because they couldn’t get out of the parking lot. They decided that with the two or three hours available between ‘now’ and ‘then’ they would buzz over to the Outlet Mall to do a little shopping. Now there Is a picture – the Outlet Mall mid-morning of the busiest shopping day Of The Year. Mercy!

By the time they arrived at the kick-off point it was so late and anyway it was zero visibility from the tram so they bagged it and headed home. And now I don’t have a picture so how can we be sure it happened?

and more….

and more.

I should mention the way-cute place we stayed and how old Joe gave/negotiated extra rooms so everyone had a bed, and how the pool was a giant spa really and everyone who wanted to enjoyed a few laps. And we played Taboo between dinner and dessert to our great hilarity and after a dozen turns the score was exactly even. But no pictures and some years from now we’ll not remember Joe’s name or the shape of the pool or the game that was so much fun.

This guy was entertaining…

This guy was entertaining the crowd with a shofar style horn concert and (of course) I just had to have a turn. At first I produced no sound At All but the sputter-poo-poo-sputter of hopeless effort. It really was just as funny as his smile allows. I did try again to slightly better effect and even if still I just bleated, enjoying his face was worth it.

Shopping in downtown Palm…

Shopping in downtown Palm Springs.

We also went to a historical society museum, a tour of an original house guided by a weird fanatic, a man we decided had a super/un/natural relationship with the long dead owner, a display of Native history and artifacts, an arts-n-crafts fair etc. etc..

More fun!

I passed out my…

I passed out my India anklets before leaving in case of, well, just in case… And I’m still waiting for pictures from:

Beth, Christa and Charis
Windy and Lainee
Cynthia’s picture is missing

This is Mom.

It took two people…

It took two people about 1/4 the time of one person to put back together the desk from D&A to C. Now Cynthia’s room has all its parts in a welcoming, practical and esthetic arrangement. The entry; the dining room; the kitchen; the lounge; the bedroom; the study; the bathroom. And the walls are beautiful and the ceiling is clean and the whole place is maybe 14×14.

The old homestead as…

The old homestead as being refurbished (at great expense for the second time) by the New Owners.

They got the nasty neighbor to the east to sign the variance and put in a new garage. They are gutting the converted garage to add a bathroom, have gutted the kitchen and front bathroom and the whole fireplace area. The first set of fix-ups include…

‘Ladies Who Dine’, a…

‘Ladies Who Dine’, a portrait from Nancy. Sandy, Nancy and Paulette at Union on 5th. And Life is Good!

Notice my head. My head is the head furthest from the camera and still My Head is the biggest head in the picture. This Always happens because I have one honkin’ head.

Isn’t this great! …

Isn’t this great! They had to move out because of all the work like no kitchen and no bathroom etc. but told Louise, who invited me over, to be sure and take me for a tour. He left Cynthia’s model of the house, which we had left for him back then, on the porch so we would be sure to see it coming in!

…they added the fire…

…they added the fire pit and seating. If you look towards Louise and Russell’s place that whole side yard is now edge to edge with kid toys. They had also added French doors from the converted garage into the yard…

Natural light, sunset at…

Natural light, sunset at Lares. I’ll live with the bit of jiggle to keep the flash from flashing. Here’s where I started doing Nancy’s trick of Image-Adjust-Selective Color-add some yellow and a bit of black to the neutral range. Then I still did the Image-Adjust-Levels to brighten up the foreground. I didn’t do any of the Sharpen filters but maybe that would have been interesting, and I could be playing with the Brush Style filters…

Joan, my next door…

Joan, my next door neighbor who takes care of all the animals in the neighborhood. She buys them small jars of baby food when they seem ‘a bit off’ and orders extra in the restaurant because she knows this one loves salmon and that one loves chicken.

Leslie and Gerhard at…

Leslie and Gerhard at the Getty. We had an entirely enjoyable afternoon and especially took note of the many faces of the marble, from far away and middle distance and close up where whole worlds live inside.

As to the garden experience, I always tout the same thing – go early, before the museum part opens and enjoy the garden in peace. This day again lines of obedient tourists were snaking down the paths like little kids on a fire drill.

We did have some…

We did have some fun too. This woman is the godmother of Gerhard’s 16 year old son (who is staying with Julie and Les for a few weeks and doing a summer job at the firm – the son that is, not the godmother).

Oh we did eat and drink and be merry – Matsuhisa, Figtree, Joe’s – all too good. And all the walking only made the food all the more delicious. This was just a small interlude in my summer campaign to physical fitness. That’s the plan anyway.

This is at Lares…

This is at Lares where I like to walk down from Roger and Sandy’s place and we get a shot of tequilla and a great dinner and hear some tableside ole music to go with the meal. The center picture is Roger’s. He doesn’t own it and they won’t sell it to him so he enjoys it there, at Lares. They did promise not to sell it to anyone else though…

My Century City Office…

My Century City Office Tower Holiday Decorations. What won’t they think of next.

The whole lobby was full of these painted white branches, with red and green leaves and several hundred red and white birds and twinkle lights all wired together into huge tree shapes and then, the important part, sprayed with red and silver glitter.

And draped from the center of the ceiling of the two story atrium? Acres of thick red bunting.

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