Daily Life 2001-2003 (in my Gray People phase)

Lynn and Carole who,…

Lynn and Carole who, in the last 7 seconds of the game decided to watch – just in time to see the winning score.

I came to Carl and Lynn’s house looking forward to sharing an afternoon with the gang and without any particular expectations about the game.

Eventually as it became clear the favorites were not going to beat the spread, well, then it got good. All the better if the underdogs would not just beat the spread but Win. That was fun.

A close-up of a…

A close-up of a Sea Dragon and even blurrier than the distant shot. The largest are maybe 6 inches long and their dragon-ness is So obvious – a big fat Wow.

Becky goes to NYC…

Becky goes to NYC and brings us back THESE! Oh we Do heart NY! Just another Monday Night out in the old home town.

Top to bottom, left to right: Becky, Jeanne, Marsha, me, Maxine, Marija, Lourdes, Maryanne, Alicia, Clarita. Missing: just Lubi who had to work.

And then we spent…

And then we spent a beautiful afternoon at the Japanese Garden in Balboa Park. It’s a lovely place with many elegant water features complements of the water reclaimation plant.

Becky and Marsha singing…

Becky and Marsha singing at Alicia’s wedding reception. At our table, we kept sending the guys off to scavange more wine. This picture kind of tells the tale.

My next door neighbor…

My next door neighbor Margaret, the flying WWII WASP, fixing my door. ‘Here honey,’ she says, ‘let me take care of that for you.’

And when you’re using screws, rub a bar of soap over the ridges before you go into the wood.

Sandy at the beach….

Sandy at the beach.

We drove up the coast, paid for parking at a place I forget the name of… it was a trying-to-be-private beach but if you paid for parking you could use the facilities. This made the area quiet and a bit hoity toity, just like we like.

Another too dark shot….

Another too dark shot. It was a learning experience. I was struggling the whole time with various error messages and the camera hanging up for no reason I could discern only to discover after it was all over that the meter was set wrong…

We Love technology but she can be a frightful mistress.

Now here is a…

Now here is a story facinating to all who knew her. Jan Dubois, returned. More to follow.

Kneeling: Carole, Emilia, Bonny. Standing: Richard, Desda, Bob, Jan, me, Bob, Ben.

Burt and Charlene having…

Burt and Charlene having a picnic at The Will Geer Theatre. This place, up in Topanga, is so totally cool. As well as the picnic grounds, they offers great theater throughout the summer in a fabulous open arena. The players are mostly amature with a few Hollywood names thrown in because why not. The production and direction is first rate.

We have all been recommending it wildly.

Mary Ann’s wedding shower….

Mary Ann’s wedding shower. The kids: Susan’s neighbor’s girl, Coleen, a neighbor boy. Seated: some chick, Mary Ann, Chelsea. Standing: a woman we don’t know, another woman we don’t know, Susan, Karen the bride’s maid, Barbara.

The ones we don’t know are these – the neighbor to the side, the neighbor to the back and somebody else.

Nick and his sweet…

Nick and his sweet daughter. This was a going-away party at Hama Sushi where they serve cold sake from huge longnecked containers that reach across the long tables and every hipster in Venice is crowded five deep at the bar or grouped into every bit of floor waiting for their turn.

This is a state…

This is a state park and the walking path is literally right here. Were they gathered together there would be, like, Herds of alligators. Why I wondered, and sought out the Ranger to ask, why don’t the alligators eat the children? As it turns out, sometimes they do.

2 of 4…

2 of 4

We’ve hauled ourselves just about straight up this hill that borders their property behind the house. You can see far into the Santa Clarita valley

Everywhere on the several acres of property are gigantic, glorious California Live Oak fully protected by statute. Boban reports that the neighbors are in fact Live Oak Nazis who sit out at night with binoculars waiting to call the cops on any infraction. Keeping the trees will add to the challenge of building out the property but will add to the glory of the finished project too. They are quite spectacular.

3 of 4…

3 of 4

The potential of the property and the amount of work it will take to achieve that potential, well it makes my mind reel. We talked a lot about a master plan and just seeing the route on paper is like having a map when you’re in the middle of nowhere.

1 of 4…

1 of 4

This is what happens when you try and get four personalities into one shot especially when one of them is a rambunctious puppy, one of them is a two year old who has had it up to here, and two of them are just hoping for the best.

I always choose the picture most flattering to me. Sounds normal.

Jordan will be three…

Jordan will be three years old in April. Country Girl or City Girl? I love the contrast in these pictures.

When I arrived at the old homestead she was pure country but within minutes she had got herself up in this beautiful dress, ready for the ball.

The best meal I…

The best meal I ate I bought at this grocery store in Molokai. All items were locally grown and recently picked. I got a tomato, a papaya, an avocado and some tangerines, all fresh and delicious and I ate them sitting under a palm tree back at camp.

A few words on the subject of food in Hawaii. A typical and much loved meal is called ‘plate lunch’ consisting of a big scoop of rice, a big scoop of mac and a pile of various meats.

Mac is the universal term used to describe a macaroni and mayo ‘salad’, heavy on the richest mayo I ever tasted. Spam is wildly popular as the meat portion of plate lunch. It isn’t a myth. You can in fact get Spam versions of about anything – spam sushi, spam burito, spam foo-young.

Often the spam is smothered in teriyaki sauce as is much of the meat on offer in Hawaii. In general, most food ends up sweet.

I know, really, there are fine restaurants in Hawaii and I did eat in a few but basically…

A view of the…

A view of the countryside. I was in Molokai for about 48 hours and there was a torrential storm for half that time. Nevertheless I became a big fan of this place. My activities timing was ok in that before the storm hit I had driven on about every paved road available to tourists.

Molokai has very diverse landscape with high volcanic mountains, high and low forests, wide sandy beaches and narrow rocky beaches, a lot of both ranching and agriculture. I was most impressed by the self sufficiency and sense of calm well being I felt from everyone.

Molokai is best known…

Molokai is best known as the site of a leper colony. The laws governing the isolation of the area and the inhabitance sent there were not repealed until 1969. From here you can see the colony’s peninsula surrounded by the highest sea cliffs in the world.

Those who were sent here as virtual prisoners have the lawful right to remain the rest of their lives and tourism into the area is strictly regulated – I need to find out why that is.

“Camp”…

“Camp”

Due to the biggest storm in five years the hotel people were concerned about the road washing out so we were evacuated from camp and put up at the lodge.

Bummer. My plans for the day included sea kayaking to the inaccessable-by-land side of the island, and I was going to ride a mountain bike down the very long road back to camp, but no way.

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